Month 15 ttc and line eyes are bad

[sparkle2020]

Hi. Have already posted on my other thread but I don’t know how it works on here and if it will be a dead thread by now? Anyway I’m month 15 ttc now and have major line eyes. Please can someone help me out and tell me to quit being daft. I’m way too hopeful and it’s just becoming a crushing disappointment month after month.

Hello OP. Sorry this is not your month. I've been where you are now and completely understand.

In terms of giving yourself a break from the POAS obsession and the monthly rollercoaster of hope, wait, sadness.. How about giving yourself Christmas and New Year off? Put a date in next years diary like 2nd Jan to get back on TTC horse and have a chilled and boozy Christmas! Party and relax and pee on no sticks! X

Thanks for the advice everyone!

And no not been to the gp yet, I have a lot of medical conditions (asthma, severe allergies, on immunosuppressive injections etc) that I go back and forth for and I just really am not ready to make this into another medical ‘problem’. I’m young enough that it shouldn’t matter, it’s just that I really want it to happen sooner. Also think if I go to gp my partner will feel pressured and not ‘perform’ if you get me 🥴

Think I’m going to give myself til start of January off like one poster said and just not think about it if I can help it.

Oh so sorry op. I think it's a good idea to try to have a nice few relaxing weeks, then see your GP in the new year x

@Laurenson88 I think that's a really insensitive post considering all the other comments

I can’t see anything, sorry OP. We were trying for 3 years so I know the frustration. Get an FRER if you’re late.

Sorry what do you mean @summerb I didn’t mean anything bad by it! I’ve been ttc for some time now and am just worried I’m seeing things! Maybe I worded it wrong? I thought I was in the same position as others on here ... or maybe I’ve commented on the wrong post! Sorry if I caused any harm

I would start your own thread Laurenson.

@laurenson88 Why don’t you put this in the TTC/pregnancy threads where it belongs???

Jeez @Laurenson88 you know this is not OK. Surely?!