I am stuck. I have a child with my ex we split when he was tiny. He’s always been a bit hit and miss seeing him, no consistency and DS hasn’t seen his dad much in several months. It’s a mix of my ex not making an effort and DS realising what his dad is like and avoiding him. It’s been really tough.
Then it comes to this time of year and suddenly the ex wants be involved - school plays, nativities, Christmas fayres etc etc. DS doesn’t feel comfortable with this as things have been strained.
DS doesn’t want to his dad to go got the school play to watch him. He’s never even picked him up from school or bothered with any of his schooling. Never been to a parents evening or anything.
Aibu to think he can’t not bother all year and be all gushy at this time of year??
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Doesn’t bother all year but wants to go to his school play.
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AG29 · 09/12/2019 13:04
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