I’m feeling rubbish today (headache) so be gentle.
ExH and I have two children together. I work, he doesn’t. By law where we live (non UK) I pay all the children’s expenses.
He’s just messaging me wanting to know what presents I’ve got the children for Christmas so he will know in advance and he will “maybe” buy something else. I texted back “I’m at work” and got the immediate reply “So? When then?” (Ie when will I send the list).
AIBU to think he could have raised it completely differently?
I work all hours to support our children and when I’m not working, I’m racing around trying to sort presents/clothes/daily things that need doing.
I feel utterly rubbish today and I have had no time to myself in months.
He does nothing with his life and contributes nothing financially.
AIBU or would it be normal to expect a message more along the lines of, hey, I haven’t got anything for the children yet? Have you?
I feel so inadequate and hopeless.
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ExH expecting me to do everything?
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justanotherlemontree · 02/12/2019 13:36
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