I have a big decision to make soon and would appreciate advice!
My boyfriend of 10 months just accepted a great job in New York. He wants me to come with him. We live in New Zealand now.
I'm not sure whether to go or break up. On one hand, I would probably be able to find a job; he has a high salary there and will support me if need be; I absolutely love the city and wanted to end up there anyway; I'm young with no ties and a master's degree.
On the other, I don't love him I just like him, while he loves me; I have a really good job here in NZ; I don't like the idea of relying on him; and we have a big age gap (22 and 36).
Would I be unreasonable / reckless to go? Or missing an opportunity if I stay?
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ThePriceOfSugar · 27/11/2019 02:10
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