We are both white.
Bf described an annoying customer to me as an 'angry little Indian man'.
When I said that is totally unacceptable, he said well he was angry and he was of South Indian descent so what I supposed to say?
And I was like errr if you're going to use diminutive , negative words before an ethnic description that is racism and is totally unacceptable to me.
He said i always have to watch my ps and qs with you
Wtaf??