Ok, so little background. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months, we was previously in a relationship for two years but then broke up for 2 years, to find our way back to each other.
He lives with his brother in a fairly decent sized house, they work away quite a lot. Recently my boyfriend has been working closer to home with his brother working away, so he comes home at weekends. I practically stay every night when my boyfriends working close to home and I stay at weekends regardless,
His brother will come home on a Friday, throw all of his clothes everywhere. In the dining room, on the landing. He won’t wash what he needs until the Sunday evening. He has a washing machine where he stays when he’s working away, so could always use that. I always buy all the washing stuff, softener etc. Anything that’s to do with cleaning I buy. I work 6 days a week and have Mondays off, I usually spend that day cleaning their house and then relaxing. I feel like me & my boyfriend always make sure there is clean towels, toilet roll, bin bags... and his brother doesn’t bother!
His girlfriend stays at the weekend too and she never clears up after herself either! They’ll leave takeaways lying about, mugs of coffee left untouched and general mess everywhere. Basically, he’s dirty!
I’m also 8 weeks pregnant and will more than likely be moving in with them both in the new year, as his brother is fine with it, they’re twins, so very close. It’s also a good way for us to save up money as I’d like to buy my own place in a couple of years. My boyfriend has said he’ll talk to him, but he never does and as the person cleaning up after them both on my one day off, I’m thinking I might have to say something myself...