For background, I've always found it really hard to process more than one person talking to me at once - I find it really, really stressful, sometimes to the point of tears. I have no idea why this is, and other people, such as DH, look at me as though I'm crazy when I say this.
I have two DC - 6 and 2. The arguing and screaming in the back of the car has reached fever pitch. We live in the middle of nowhere so it's a 30 minute journey to school, and the same to swimming lessons and many birthday parties, etc. I know they're just being normal kids, but I'm finding it so stressful and distracting that I'm worried it's dangerous. The journey home form school, in particular, can leave my blood pressure sky high, as I try to make sure I'm driving safely through the screaming and shouting. Obviously, I've tried asking nicely, multiple times, asking less nicely, and have on occasion ended up shouting back at them, which is hardly a good example to set, but I am feeling desperate and a bit scared. DH seems to think that this stress reaction is a behaviour which I am allowing to happen and that I should be able to "cure" it using CBT or something similar. He is comparing it to a fear of heights. Does anyone have any experience of feeling like this, and is it something that you can change? To me, it just feels like the way that my brain is wired, but I do need to try absolutely anything I can.
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Yesanothernamechange · 17/11/2019 20:24
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