Who is at fault here

[Froggy10]

Ds list his first tooth at school and DH said he had put it somewhere safe. I have been in hospital then DH was working late this week so we said we would wait to do the tooth fairy till tonight
We were tiding up this morning and I was going through some paperwork on the sideboard that DH could plainly see.
Just now he has turned to me and gone where is DS tooth. I said you said you out I somewhere
DH pointed at the sideboard that I had been sorting stuff out on and said it was in a tiny bit of paper. So I have obviously looked at this tiny bit of paper thought that’s what is was (a tiny bit of paper) and I have thrown it away
Now I have just got yelled at for losing it he said “fuck you” threw all the clothes off the sofa that I have folding up, hit the wall on the way past and stormed out

[Howlovely]

I'd want to put his face under the pillow never mind the tooth.
It's pretty clear that he flies off the handle at any and every little thing and finds a way to make it your fault - you annoyed him, you lost the tooth, you didn't make the dinner he likes, etc. This is very unlikely to change so you need to change it. Get yourself and your children out of there as soon as you can safely manage to do so. It will not be long before he crosses over to hitting you and once that taboo is broken the first time he will do it again and again. Get your kids away from this man.

[Ciara1234456]

He is acting immature, blaming it on you, he probably feels guilty he didn’t put it somewhere safe. His reaction is completely psycho, why should you have to see that? Hear that? Put up with that? It’s not right!!!! Get out while you can. It will start making you feel nervous and on edge so you will start tiptoeing around him to make sure he doesn’t flip out and that is domestic abuse

[wineisnecessary]

Complete overreacting he should not speak to you like that .
And you've had a child with him

[Beveren]

You need a conversation about him doing anger management sessions. If he won't, think long and hard about how long you want to go on with this sort of nonsense.