These were the words spoken to me by my 'supposedly' better half earlier on this afternoon. Bit of context, my OH has been driving since he was 18, he's now 31, I on the other hand, was a late learner and passed nearly 4 years ago, I'm also 31. We both have our own cars, but what we usually do on days off together, is use just the one,...makes sense, we're both going in the same direction...anyway, I'm currently off on maternity leave, so I've actually been driving more than usual. My OH has always been funny about me driving US anywhere, it's normally him driving if we're getting in together, for peace sake, I just let him get on with it. But today we were getting ready to go to his parents, and I asked if it would be ok if I drove up, no reason in particular, I just fancied getting behind the wheel, I do actually enjoy driving...I wish I would never have bothered asking now, as soon as the words left my mouth he snapped "No, I'm driving us up, I'm not having this", I asked what he meant by that, to which his reply was "I'm driving us up, I'm not arguing" 
I said "it's not an argument, I was only asking if I could drive up, what's the problem, you always drive up, why can't I just drive us up once for a change" he said "I'm sick of it, you're just going to argue and end up doing it anyway" this is probably the second time I've asked to drive us both anywhere for a long time, he stomped off to the car....stomped back up, swung the door open and then said, very seriously "I hope we crash"...........Not "I hope you crash"....."I hope WE crash", I must point out, I had my daughter in her car seat at this point ready to take her down to the car...AIBU to make him feel guilty to the end of his time for what he said????