The thing is @Oliversmumsarmy it's not as simple as moving to get a better paid job, or working smarter. Are you a landlord perhaps
I have been a landlord. But I have gone to work longer than I ever was a landlord.
Dd is 19 and doesn’t work a 9-5 job.
She has set up her own business and does work over the course of the year 6 different jobs. Some she will only work 3-4 days per year some she works 3-4 days per week.
This week alone she has gone from one job to another to another to another to another all on pure zero hours contracts that allow her to work for other people and pick and choose which shifts she does.
She hasn’t had a day off for 12 days.
Even today she has been at work since 10am and is scheduled to not finish work till midnight.
A lot of her friends are at university and have not worked a day in their life.
In about 18 months time her friends will be coming out with a degree and a huge debt.
In 18 months time Dd is looking to buy a 2nd property. (Very cheap very grotty auction properties)
Dd has been offered a “promotion” and ft work in the offices of one of the companies that she works for.
Even without taking into account actually getting herself to and from the office she earns more doing 3 days per week for them in what is considered a lesser role than she would do working ft.
This is what I was trying to say about working smarter not harder.
If she had childcare to consider it would probably restrict her (it would be a nightmare if she had a ft office job) she would choose shifts where her Dp would look after dc rather than pay for childcare.
Her Dp also has his own business and wfh and doesn’t work a 9-5 job either.
I am sure they would figure it out if the hypothetical ever happened.
Atm though they both live at home and won’t move out till they can afford a place round here for cash.
I do think though some areas don’t have the opportunities and maybe moving is the way forward.
We did years ago and it was the best move we ever did.