To wear this to a wedding

[Rightyoh]

Going to a wedding reception on Saturday night... wibu to wear this?

Too much?

:D I like them all OP, you wear whatever you want!

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How about this?
(I'm avoiding the ironing not belittling your taste. I like all of the others and if I looked slightly less like a sack of spuds with eyes I'd wear any of them!)

For an evening only, I think the last dress is fine. It's less try-hard than the first and a fun kind of hot.

No dress 3 looks like a bridesmaid in mourning dress, they will definitely think you want the bride /groom for yourself.

I was never concerned about wedding attire until the most gorgeous looking girl turned up to my cousins wedding in a white lace fitted dress. My partner thought she was the bride!

Ooh, like the last one best!

I like last one best as well.

If I was young, slimmer and going to the evening do only I think the first one is fine. Especially is the bride is young. The second one makes you look like a giant present.

I wouldn't wear it on any occasion. I wore a black dress once, but discreet and with turquoise and pink accessories. You don't want to look like a member of the Adams family at a wedding.

Dress 4 is suitable too.

On another note, WHO really think someone is mourning the bride or groom by wearing black to a wedding nowadays?!?

Dress 4 without a doubt.

I like but not for a wedding. As a PP said people may think you are trying to upstage the bride. I went to a wedding recently and the bride’s sister was wearing a really low cut dress, cut down to just above her belly button. It was also the shortest length a dress can be without being a top! Everyone thought she was a total dick for wearing it.

So here are my thoughts in order of preference
4
2
3
1 (pref not)
Let us know what you wear.
Enjoy

The burgundy one I think is typical wedding outfit but I think you’ll rock it and make it look cool. Last embellished one is lush. I also have tattoos and piercings. I’d want to feel like myself too. I’d wear both of those but accessorise the hell out of that burgundy one.

OP - do you not have any gay male friends that could point you in the right direction?

I also would and have worn black to a wedding. It’s titally fine. It’s the style and fabric of the first own which is not ok

Wear what you want and.what makes you feel good. Far too many pursed lips on here!

I’m going to pop out when DH gets home. If I can’t find anything, I’ll go for the ASOS one.
Watch this space

good luck

I love the skirt. I would wear it with a cute structured tshirt over the top! But I am old...

I’m 38(really don’t look it) size 10, tattoos, very short Hair. This 2nd dress isn’t really my style, but I must conform

No, you really must not. I like the first one. The second one is also nice but ..... you may end up looking like everyone else. I'm 52, hardly a hair to my name, facial piercings, no tattoos: I'd rock the first one, no problem at all. And .... I look every year of my 52

Dresses 2, 3 or 4 are fine.

I think the model for dress 3 is too busty for it. The skirt is bulky, and there's not enough distinction around the waist, it suits a straighter build.

Is dress 4 lined? I wouldn't buy a sequined dress without trying it as they can be very rough and scratchy which is a shame as they look great.

3 & 4 are nice.

But if it’s a crowd of people you know, and dress 1 is your usual type of outfit, I don’t see the problem? Everyone will be used to you dressing a bit errrrm you know. So it might be strange to suddenly arrive at a social event looking like a standard wedding guest?

WEAR IT! It's lovely!

I love it!!!