To be upset over no invite?

[hattybattyscatty]

I have been seeing someone,and well anyway I found out he has been sleeping with other people and we were never exclusive so I have no reason apparently to be mad??
Now we speak every day,he has a high level of contact.
Tonight he texts saying
"Just going over (mutual friends ) house for drinks with a few people then off to the pub )
I text saying I had no plans and was home alone ..thinking he might say oh come over too.
Nope..
Clearly if I'm there he won't be able to pull or flirt or whatever.
I feel like telling him to get lost when he texts tomorrow.
I feel like a massive idiot.
He knows I have feelings for him.
Aibu to be upset ?

... and get yourself tested for STIs.

Block and move on

why is he such an awful person?? you were not exclusive so what's the problem?
And you are choosing to engage with him so why must he be accountable for your own part in this.

He's not the one for you, OP. He sees you as a fuck buddy, I'm afraid.

Bin him

Oh come on.

You thought you was a proper couple, you found out he was sleeping with other people and you still want to spend the night with him.

Sorry, but your a mug

He doesn't like you very much, apart from the odd shag.

Cut contact and make space for someone who cares about you.

You deserve better.

Dont act needy

Move on

He's just not that in to you.

Thank u, next!

Why the new thread? We have already established he needs dumping and doesnt give a crap about you. Youve missed off this thread the worst bit, that you were at the same party as him when he was kissing another girl!!!!

Have more respect for yourself than he has for you

You've missed off this thread the worst bit, that you were at the same party as him when he was kissing another girl!!!!

OMG.

Don't waste another second on him. Seriously...this is a no brainer.

Just block him. No explanation necessary.

You deserve better and can do so much better than this immature twat! Ditch him!

He's been dipping his wick in anything that moves and you still want him? Urgh get some standards.

I’d say this relationship isn’t for you, he clearly isn’t able to give you what you want (a full commitment from him?) Instead or wasting time agonising and second guessing his behaviour maybe move on and find someone who wants what you want. Good luck

run in the other direction as fast as you can!
And as horrific as the prospect might be, if you have been having unprotected sex get yourself to the clinic because he sounds like he could be a clapper

My friends are telling me,he has been sleeping with other girls,texting other girls and your upset because he hasn't invited you out,and it's ridiculous.
That is the tip of the ice berg.

Was there not an almost identical thread the other day from this OP?
Did he not send her a photo of a drink and she identified the work top as not being his therefore he was lying about his whereabouts

If you are this desperate for him knowing what hes about then you deserve it. Sounds like you enjoy the drama. Cant blame anyone for your own actions.

This is not going to end in the exclusive, happy relationship that you want. Get out now and don’t contact him or reply to him again.

Why are you bothered. You’re just some last resort muff for when he can’t find anything better.

Why on earth would you be wasting your time with someone who is clearly demonstrating how little he thinks of you?

His behaviour says it all - BIN HIM and save yourself for someone worthy because this idiot clearly is not.

I've joined a couple of dating sites tonight
I'm gonna see if there's anything better out there.

Being on your own is better than putting up with shit like that. Block his number.

Find a mirror. Tell yourself 1000times you deserve better.
Dump and block.

yes that's the solution for you. More bad choices to follow.