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AIBU?? Strange photo saved on boyfriends Messenger photo gallery

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Penny12355 · 16/10/2019 22:14

Right I know I'm probly just being stupid but then I'm like "or am i" before anyone says yes I can be stupid and immature so I'll just insult myself before anyone else does. So one day me and my boyfriend were looking through his "messenger gallery" and on his phone any photos that are sent to him on Facebook are saved to this folder. We were scrolling through and there was a LOT of photos I have sent him and then there was a photo of the back of this girls hair.. she was sittin on end of a bed, a room I dont recognise, and her hair was really straight and she had like a copper colour dip dye.. but anyway when we seen the picture I said who the fucks that.. and he goes is that not you?? (Because it was a picture from a while ago) and he said he seen it a few days ago and thought it was me, he said its probly saved automatically from a group chat or something stupid. But one thing I will say is sometimes he straightened my hair and took a pic of it to show me but that was saved on the camera roll and not the messenger folder like this one was. Can someone tell me if I'm bein Unreasonable to over think it but not go to harsh

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lily2403 · 17/10/2019 15:02

i am in whastapp groups and fb groups people send me pictures and sometimes i dont see them then they appear in my photo reel and i think wtf is that hahahha....it could be perfectly innocent plus i find that men/women who have things to hide would never sit and let you scroll through their photos

Penny12355 · 17/10/2019 16:53

Very true and would he not of deleted it to.. he told me he had seen it before and thought it was me (so surely if anythin dodgy and he was by himself and seen it he would of deleted it

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Penny12355 · 17/10/2019 17:00

I typed into google copper dip dye hair, and honestly the photo was SO like this except just sitting on a bed that's exactly how the girl was sitting and all . At the time though I dragged the picture into the google bar thing and searched it and it said no matches found so it musnt of been from Google

AIBU?? Strange photo saved on boyfriends Messenger photo gallery
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DrFoxtrot · 17/10/2019 18:49

It might be worth thinking of this as evidence of wrongdoing and dumping the poor guy. Set him free!

annsumners · 17/10/2019 19:01

This thread is giving me anixety... I don't understand OPs replies

GeneHuntLover · 17/10/2019 19:13

annsummers she's a regular poster, multiple user names, never really answers questions, spells the same things wrong. I've already been deleted for troll hunting, I expect this post will go poof soon

CAG12 · 17/10/2019 19:13

🙄

coconuttelegraph · 17/10/2019 19:18

Post the photo so we can have a better idea of what might be going on.

EdersonsSmileyTattoo · 17/10/2019 19:22

Sorry but you sound crackers OP.

I feel sorry for your OH.

Springfern · 17/10/2019 19:28

This thread is wild!

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 17/10/2019 19:40

My phone once went completely crazy and started saving peoples fb pictures and sending them from me to other people through fb messenger

ElizaDee · 17/10/2019 19:42

Well, the cray cray is strong on this thread, ain't it!

Sallyseagull · 17/10/2019 19:43

OP, you need help.

GaaaaarlicBread · 17/10/2019 19:44

You’re overthinking it . He probably googled some photos of hair styles or something to know how to do your hair . You’re being insecure . Chill out x

QueenBeex · 17/10/2019 19:47

I think you're just being paranoid, he hasn't done anything wrong.

taytosandwich · 17/10/2019 19:48

How long have you been together Confused

ChrisPrattsFace · 17/10/2019 19:57

This has made my brain hurt.
He’s taken pictures of your hair in the past... so if he’s Cheating he’s taking pictures of her hair too?
I’m pretty sure it’s the last thing he would be doing.
Wayyyyyy overthinking a picture of a head.

Penny12355 · 17/10/2019 20:11

I unfortunately don't have the picture anymore I wish I did to post it haha

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Penny12355 · 17/10/2019 20:12

Very similar to the pic I posted though

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coconuttelegraph · 17/10/2019 20:19

I unfortunately don't have the picture anymore I wish I did to post it haha

I'm confused, which photo did you do a google image search on then?

At the time though I dragged the picture into the google bar thing and searched it and it said no matches found so it musnt of been from Google

18995168a · 17/10/2019 20:35

You dragged the picture into the google bar? So you used a laptop or desktop to do that right? Cos you can’t drag images to google on a smartphone as far as I’m aware (happy to be corrected).

How did the photo get from your boyfriend’s phone folder to a desktop/laptop?

Penny12355 · 17/10/2019 22:39

I dont have the pic anymore this was a few months ago, I put it on my laptop and dragged it into google (a few months ago) and no matches found.. so does this mean it definitly wasnt got from google??

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OkayGo · 17/10/2019 22:43

Are you okay op...?!

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