I have also had 2 ECVs in 2 different pregnancies.
The first was at 37 wks in my 2nd pregnancy. I was warned of the risks and potential success rates. For me, I really didnt want a section and as it wasn't my first pregnancy, baby had plenty of room and fluid to move around in and he was over and not my pelvis, I felt like there was a high chance of success.
The procedure wasn't painful, barely uncomfortable and was successful. Had a natural delivery 5 wks later.
2nd ECV was just 8wks ago. Baby gad unstable lie- footling breech to transverse, to transverse in the other direction and back to footling breech over 3 days, all confirmed on scan.
The procedure was a bit uncomfortable but didnt need any pain relief, and it was successful. I was induced immediately but unless you are dilated a bit your waters will not be ruptured straight away, its just not possible.
I ended up with an EMCS 2.5 days later as she put her hand over her face which meant I couldn't deliver vaginally due to risk of shoulder dystocia. Had a large PPH and I'm still not properly healed, so sections aren't always that great either, in my experience.
Bottom line, all pregnancies/ labours are different and you need to weigh up risks/ likelihood of success of ECV in your unique circumstance and consider against gaving a section. Remember people often publicise when things have gone badly wrong more than they do when things were fine.