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To be annoyed when DS says "amn't" in conversation?

85 replies

SpeckledLog · 07/10/2019 12:47

I know the dictionary probably lists it as a word but when he says it in conversation it gives me the feeling of fingernails on chalk.
Is this a nationwide trend now that we just have to get used to?

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CaptainCabinets · 07/10/2019 12:48

I have literally never heard anyone say that in my life.

SellmeyourMLMcrap · 07/10/2019 12:54

It's a phase OP. The internet has a lot to answer. I doubt this one will it stick but I've been rightn't before.

OkayGo · 07/10/2019 12:57

How is it used? Is it like aren't??

Bilingualspingual · 07/10/2019 12:58

I say it and I’m Scottish. I’ve only ever heard Scots say it though...where are you all from?

HetHetHet · 07/10/2019 13:01

OkayGo - as a contraction of "am not".

Sellme I'm sure it's been in common use for a lot longer than the internet has been around.

(Also Scottish!)

PralineCookie · 07/10/2019 13:02

I have literally never heard anyone say that in my life.

Same here and I'm Scottish.

ApocalypseNowt · 07/10/2019 13:04

I'm guessing West Midlands/Black Country?

0blio · 07/10/2019 13:05

I have always said it - I'm Scottish. It makes far more sense than 'aren't' in some sentences. (Abbreviation of 'am I not' rather than 'are I not')

SpeckledLog · 07/10/2019 13:05

@Bilingualspingual We are in the London area

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iMatter · 07/10/2019 13:05

We said it growing up in Scotland.

It was perfectly normal for us (back in the dark ages admittedly...)

AhNowTed · 07/10/2019 13:07

Very commonly used in Ireland.

PralineCookie · 07/10/2019 13:07

am I not'

Shouldn't it be I am not?

steppemum · 07/10/2019 13:11

depends on how old your ds is.

it is actually the sign of quite a clever (young) kid, they have worked out the grammar form, and have then extended that to 'am not' the problem is that 'am not' is irregular.

so they have absorbed is=isn't; have=haven't and then done the same thing to am=amn't

If he is pre-school age he will self correct soon enough.

If he is a teenager, he is just doing it to look cool. The more you comment the more he will do it! Start doing it yourself, he will stop immediately.

0blio · 07/10/2019 13:12

I'm glad it's made its way down to you London folk OP, we'll have you saying 'outwith' soon Grin

BarbaraStrozzi · 07/10/2019 13:14

Another Scot here - it's one of the few bits of Scots dialect I retain after nearly five decades in England.

PralineCookie · 07/10/2019 13:15

It seems that I'm the only Scot who hasn't heard anyone saying this.

CointreauVersial · 07/10/2019 13:15

I thought it was an Irish thing.

iklboo · 07/10/2019 13:17

Shouldn't it be I am not?

No it's a different meaning - eg 'I am early, am I not?'

Bilingualspingual · 07/10/2019 13:17

I’ve actually managed to train my poor London kid to say ‘puggled’ which my Clackmannanshire mum used for ‘exhausted’. Bet ‘amn’t’ doesn’t sound so bad now!Grin

zukiecat · 07/10/2019 13:18

Scottish here too and we say it all the time

I'm 52, and have grown up with this phrase, so been around much longer than the internet

SpinySue · 07/10/2019 13:18

Watch out, he might start using - am ur'nae- ha!

PralineCookie · 07/10/2019 13:18

Which part of Scotland are you all from, if I may ask?

tolerable · 07/10/2019 13:19

Also scottish,also use it.... have --known some who went beyond that and said "am ur" ...or.. "amurni" too

ContessaLovesTheSunshine · 07/10/2019 13:20

I think it's Irish. There was a massive hoo haa in my international school many years ago when an Irish teacher wrote a multiple choice (internal) exam and put down a sentence including amn't I as the correct answer. The entire academic year of primarily Arab students (and the various other English-speaking teachers) were very confused Grin

0blio · 07/10/2019 13:20

East coast Praline

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