Husband ended our marriage at the end of the summer. He doesn’t love me anymore. He has been disengaged and absent for a number of years. He promised me that there is no other woman. Signs are that there is. Can I run them by you for your thoughts please?
Twice a week he arrives home after eleven pm. Meant to finish at six but often works late.
Has a gym bag full of
Toiletries which he takes in and out of his car to his room whenever he is going to be late.
He has s hiding moneyie being paid overtime cash in hand .
Very private with his phone and all passwords and on his phone when he is at home .
Angry and resentful towards me and kids.
Staying overnight in city that he works in.
More hygiene and grooming. New clothes etc.
Free To be with our kids every weekend. So I think of there is a woman she must have kids herself.
Nights he is home late are normally the same eg Monday and Thursday .
I’m turn as I know his work does involve late evenings but since April he has worked so much overtime yet there is no digital evidence of payment or time in lieu . I’m in a fog and would value clarity please.
Finally our children are very sensitive to his absence and are very emotional and full of anxiety. One of our children has asd, the other anxiety.