I suppose my AIBU is, to think that quite a few women put with so much crap from men but when they eventually cut the cord and move on, the men become confused as to why their relationship has failed. When the women finally gives up mothering the adult man child (in a sense)
This is NOT a bashing thread. Im jus curious of the males psyche. What I have noticed quite common are, women talking about their partners not stepping up? Not that long ago a friend of someone I know is left confused as to why his partner has jus upped and left.. they have a 1 year old DS. From what I know it was due to his behaviour- not doing his part as a parent or cleaning up after himself. Expacting her to do it 🤔 She did speak to him about it but he didn't listen.
Why do most men (not all) think that family life is down to the women to maintain and structure? Why do you choose not to listen when your wife/partner speaks to you?