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Couple adopt 6 year old Ukrainian child who turns out to be 22 year old adult sociopath

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Amouse1 · 24/09/2019 18:34

I saw this online today and it's blown my mind, what are your thoughts?

In summary, a couple adopt what they believed to be a 6 year old Ukrainian child who was later found to be approx 22 after bone density tests etc.

The 'child' reportedly tried to hurt the family, doing things like trying to push the mother into an electric fence, pouring bleach in drinks and standing over people in the night threatening to kill them. The girl was found out to be an adult, diagnosed as a sociopath with a severe mental illness, and put on medication.

The family moved to Canada leaving the girl behind and have now been charged with abandonment, even though the girl is legally an adult.

This is just one of the many articles about it.

www.thesun.co.uk/news/9991243/mum-adopted-girl-dwarfism-kristine-barnett/

I can't grasp how this could have happened, or what to believe?

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Amouse1 · 25/09/2019 00:17

That reuters article is heartbreaking Sad

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TheDarkPassenger · 25/09/2019 00:54

I was in the ‘real life orphan’ camp until I stalked her new mum on Facebook. Those early pics man, she’s clearly a child!

At least she’s happy now, 16 years old or 30

AnAC12UCOinanOCG · 25/09/2019 01:04

Am I the only one wondering how the hell they got her DOB on her birth certificate changed? You'd think that's an incredibly rare process and the authorities would've required some actual proof.

LoreleiRock · 25/09/2019 01:17

Newer reports have said that the child is the age they were told and there are warrants out for their arrest. Horrible story.

Coyoacan · 25/09/2019 03:17

The US has appalling adoption laws.

As for the girl, if she had early puberty and it was not treated with puberty blockers, she would indeed have ended up very short. A friend of my dd had a brain tumor when she was five which brought on puberty and she was given puberty blockers to give her time to grow.

WellThisIsShit · 25/09/2019 03:44

Utterly grotesque whatever is the real story. Poor victim at the bottom of all of this, be she child, teen or adult now.

TatianaLarina · 25/09/2019 13:18

Am I the only one wondering how the hell they got her DOB on her birth certificate changed? You'd think that's an incredibly rare process and the authorities would've required some actual proof

Probably. I’d imagine everyone else commenting has read the story, including the lengthy process that resulted in her DoB change.

MyDcAreMarvel · 25/09/2019 15:11

Op I think you should report your title as it’s speculation not fact.

AnAC12UCOinanOCG · 25/09/2019 17:30

TatianaLarina Meow.

TinyMystery · 26/09/2019 14:46

@MyDcAreMarvel I hardly think anyone is using MNet for accurate news updates.

MyDcAreMarvel · 26/09/2019 23:34

That’s not my issue , if Natalia is a child it’s really not ok to refer to her as an adult sociapath.

WindsweptEgret · 27/09/2019 17:52

I didn't realise the first picture was the mother, it looks nothing like her in the other pictures! I guess she must have used some sort of filter on it?

This article has pictures of the 'child', who looks like she has more adult teeth than my teenager Hmm.

metro.co.uk/2019/09/24/mum-abandoned-adopted-girl-9-claims-really-22-wanted-kill-family-10797257/

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