We've been TTC for a number of years and have had a few (more than actually) miscarriages.
Yesterday DH said he was worrying lately and when I asked what about he said he's not looking forward to no longer being the most important thing to me and knowing that I'll love something/someone more than him.
He's said he definitely still wants a child with me but just really loves our 'us' time now and will miss it.
The thing is, he has children already. I said to him that I have to deal with those feelings, of not being the most important thing to him and whilst I can understand his feelings, I don't want to get into a place where we now start backtracking and I have to give up what he already has.
He assures me that he isn't backtracking at all, he still really wants it, he's just been thinking lately that it will make him a bit sad.
But now I'm worried. I'm extra worried because in order for us to have a child (hopefully) it's going to be a long, probably painful journey and I'm not petrified that he's going to turn around and say he doesn't want it anymore.
Are these normal concerns would you say?