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To think a seating plan at work is like being treated as a child?

101 replies

Needtopaintmynails · 20/09/2019 18:24

I had a seating plan throughout secondary school.

I assumed as a adult we would be allowed to sit with who we wanted at work (obvious exceptions such as if people distract each other etc).

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AppleKatie · 20/09/2019 18:25

Depends where you work really.

We each have our own desks in my office- not a seating plan as such but we always sit where our own stuff is...

BringOnTheScience · 20/09/2019 18:26

Depends on your job. I have an allocated desk. We recently had a rejig to fit in a new appointment.
Some places entirely hot desk.
Makes sense to be with immediate colleagues if you need to talk to each other.

BlueJava · 20/09/2019 18:27

I work for a large company, we have a seating plan. We sit with our teams so we work on projects together. However, I have nothing to do with it (deliberately) it's sorted by admin as I refuse to mediate on who sits where!

Lemoneeza · 20/09/2019 18:27

yabu. if that's what the boss wants then that's what you do. Maybe they've had problems in the past

Preggosaurus9 · 20/09/2019 18:28

It's normal, every job I've had you get told where to sit. I'd say anything else is childish actually! Work involves doing things you don't necessarily want to do, you're there to work not to socialise.

TeenPlusTwenties · 20/09/2019 18:28

We had 'seating plans' at work. In as much as areas were allocated to a department, a manger allocated bays to 4 people, and then you decided between you who got the window seats. There was lots of 'politics' especially when expansion or changing department sizes necessitated all moving around. And as for who got an office ...

Stroller15 · 20/09/2019 18:29

I think yanbu OP. I've never actually thought about it but always had an allocated space. Nowadays it shouldn't matter anyway because the person 6 feet from me will still email me.

OnlyTheTitOfTheIceberg · 20/09/2019 18:30

Do you mean sit where you like within your team, or anywhere within the office?

I’ve always worked in places where teams sit together, and then it has varied as to whether staff within the team get a free choice or an assigned desk. Sometimes there are reasons for the latter (eg seating the person who always relies on Colleague A to answer all their questions - that they’ve asked and had answered a dozen times before - away from Colleague A to give the latter a chance to get on with their own work in peace).

31RueCambon75001 · 20/09/2019 18:30

Well i didnt choose my own desk. Does anybody choose their desk? It depends where the empty desks are really!

BogglesGoggles · 20/09/2019 18:32

This is often done in offices with a lot of people coming through to make it easier to navigate. Hot dealing can be quite confusing.

ALoadOfTwaddle · 20/09/2019 18:32

Does it really matter? You're not there to socialise.

peachgreen · 20/09/2019 18:33

I'd say allocated desks is the norm in the majority of organisations.

MillfredTheGreat · 20/09/2019 18:34

YANBU. I have sat in an office with a seating plan and I didn’t appreciate being made to feel like a naughty school girl. From a work culture perspective I think it’s better to treat people like the autonomous adults they are (unless they show they are not).

Rainbowshine · 20/09/2019 18:35

We have allocated desks, partly for those requiring specific space e.g. one colleague has eyesight problem so has to have the right light levels and another needs to be near the copier as they print customer contracts all day.

Snowy111 · 20/09/2019 18:37

I used to be a manager and my team leaders always decided their team seating plan - to alleviate falling outs, stop certain people talking too much, let newer people be mentored by more experienced people. Some people do behave like they're in the playground and it worked quite well Grin.

Leighhalfpennysthigh · 20/09/2019 18:38

Does it really matter? You're not there to socialise

I remember my mother saying this when I whinged about seating plans in school!

jcurve · 20/09/2019 18:40

If you have fixed desks with personal pedestals, how can you not have a seating plan?

If you have agile working, then a seating plan is quite unreasonable. Where I work, we have agile with defined team areas and it’s up to you as to where you sit as long as it’s within your team footprint. I have about 20 desks to choose from.

Having said that, we have a team (not mine) where they have a set desk within their team footprint, eg juniors are prohibited from sitting at the window. I find that a bit ridiculous.

Abouttoblow · 20/09/2019 18:41

How would that work? Would you ask someone else to move to enable you to sit with who you wanted to?

HeresMe · 20/09/2019 18:42

Where I used to work if they changed the seating plans it was some big secret it was pathetic, I don't mind where I sit but the secrecy was a little bit of power to them.

arethereanyleftatall · 20/09/2019 18:44

Yabu.
Of course you have allocated desks at work. Everyone is sitted next to who they would most likely need to speak to in the job.

soulrider · 20/09/2019 18:44

I'm confused as to whether you're referring to hot desking or not. Unless it's a company where everyone hotdesks (which has its own issues), I've always been allocated a desk. I've never thought of it as childish, just entirely normal.

ShastaBeast · 20/09/2019 18:45

I prefer to have an allocated desk so I can leave things on it and in the drawers. It’s also made sense in the past to be close to managers and colleagues. But that’s usually when I’ve started a job where people are already seated at desks and I take one of the free ones as agreed with managers. I’ve never had an issue with being allocated a desk. I would request not to hot desk and have a good excuse.

Cohle · 20/09/2019 18:45

I allocate desks/offices in my team at work. I'd think it was bizarre if someone wanted to sit with their mates. It's a professional environment, unless you have a business reason for your request I think you need to accept that this is how the majority of the working world operates.

AChickenCalledDaal · 20/09/2019 18:47

When we had an office refurbishment, we came to an amicable agreement as a team about who would have which desk in the new layout. But it was based on job descriptions, rather than personalities.
Everyone sits close to the people they most need to discuss stuff with.

I guess if a couple of people were really incompatible we might change it. But new starters generally just get shown to their new desk, and then stay there.

RavenLG · 20/09/2019 18:48

I’ve just quit my job but we got moved around about 4 times in a year. Ridiculous! I just want an assigned desk and not have to shift all my shit all the time.