My sister has recently bought a house. It needs alot of work doing to it. She has left husband amicably and her ex husband is extremely supportive and has kids alot.
She is quite a pushy character as aposed to myself who can't be assed frankly and don't ever feel comfortable making people feel bad for doing something they don't want to do.
I have 2 kids btw, single parent, extremely unsupportive ex I do everything by myself. I have always been totally independent.
My sister has never really been there for me she only really contacts when she wants something. We've never been close if I'm honest.
She's added me to a group chat with other family member saying that she wants help to renovate new house giving us all jobs, painting, and laying carpets etc. Refurbishment. I just read the group chat and though wtf??? Is she f*cking kidding me or taking the absolute p*s?! I don't want to do this. I really don't feel I should volunteer my time to do this?? Its not my project it's hers
I would be more inclined to help a good friend as she has been quite horrid to me in the past. I really feel she is being a cheeky cow.
Now I know she will probably come back saying you have "free" time as I don't work like she does and my youngest started school this week. It is literally the first time I have had no kids at home in years. I have just signed up to study again and get myself out there so I can now get myself a career. I'm just pist off that she assumes I'm helping!!??!! And my life is overlooked. Now I need some advice please on what to say. I don't want to fall out with her so please give diplomatic response SUGGESTIONS PLEASE :)
AIBU?