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To think women in their 70s shouldn’t be allowed IVF treatment

37 replies

ZiggyB · 06/09/2019 17:34

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-49575735
What good can come from this?

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AnneLovesGilbert · 06/09/2019 17:34

There’s another thread on this you could join.

ZiggyB · 06/09/2019 17:35

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-49575735 link

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BolloxtoGender · 06/09/2019 17:36

Yanbu

But I can see already that someone is going to say ‘a man in his 70s can still father children......’.

ZiggyB · 06/09/2019 17:37

Oh didn’t realise there’s another thread. Confused

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ZiggyB · 06/09/2019 17:37

The father is in his 80s!

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BolloxtoGender · 06/09/2019 17:37

Nor me

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 06/09/2019 17:41

Poor baby girls. Not exactly a great part of the world to be female. What will happen to them when the parents die? The dad had a stroke.

ZiggyB · 06/09/2019 17:44

It seems a poor use of IVF treatment to me. Those poor kids will be orphans soon.

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ShadyLady53 · 06/09/2019 17:58

As a desperately sad single, childless 35 year old...

YA SOOOOOOOO NBU Angry

Poor babies.

AsTheWorldTurns · 06/09/2019 18:02

YABVVVVVU.

Just kidding, obvs.

Beamur · 06/09/2019 18:04

Crikey.
Depends on extended family maybe? Unlikely to be brought up to adulthood by birth parents.

Nottrueatall · 06/09/2019 18:06

YADNBU, and tbh, I don't actually think that anyone over the age at which the average women goes through the menopause (eg, mid 50s) should be allowed to use IVF.

Spingtrolls · 06/09/2019 18:08

Wow. Asked what would happen to the children - it’s in the hands of God.
I feel sorry for the twins. They will be orphaned and no plan in place

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 06/09/2019 18:10

But they weren’t ‘in the hands of god’ - in the hands of science.

HeadsDownThumbsUpEveryone · 06/09/2019 18:12

Totally not unreasonable. I consider it a classic Jurassic park type scenario as the medical professionals involved said he did it because he thought it would be a challenge:

"scientists were so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn't stop to think if they should"

The sad truth is now 2 small children will probably be orphans before they are even into double digits and its all because they wanted to see if it was possible to successfully artificially impregnate a 70 year old. great work doc Hmm

Ginger1982 · 06/09/2019 18:28

As someone who has benefitted from IVF, I completely agree. It's quite frankly ridiculous!

imnotinthemood · 06/09/2019 18:34

It is ridiculous and some doctors in this case anyway are very egotistical. The fact that they have been part of a woman giving birth at 73 .
What about the implications ? no not right sorry .
I remember years ago a woman had a child in their 50s through ivf and it was huge news and then 60s and now 70s where will It stop ? .

NeutralJanet · 06/09/2019 18:36

YANBU. I can't understand how any doctor would think this was ethically right and implant embryos into an elderly woman.

berlinbabylon · 06/09/2019 18:41

Don't you have to be under 35 for the NHS. I think 40 should be the upper limit.

ShadyLady53 · 06/09/2019 18:50

@berlinbabylon No it’s not 35...women are offered 3 cycles up to the age of 40 on the NHS as standard.

Vegasdreaming27 · 06/09/2019 18:53

@ShadyLady53 that's not true, totally depends on where you live. My trust doesn't offer IVF to anyone

Whatelsecouldibecalled · 06/09/2019 18:53

You can’t have ivf in your 70s in the uk. It wouldn’t get past the HFEA guidelines

KUGA · 06/09/2019 18:54

POOR CHILDREN.
Will they ever get to know their parents.
Also family members will feel obliged to take them on when the inevitable happens .
SELFISH springs to mind.

Whatelsecouldibecalled · 06/09/2019 18:55

@ShadyLady53 no the NICE guidelines is that you should be offered up to 3 rounds once diagnosed with infertility however it’s totally down to the CCG to decide how many rounds are offered. In many cases it’s 1 and in some cases non at all. It’s why ivf is known as a postcode lottery it really is dependent where you live.

SerenDippitty · 06/09/2019 18:55

There are clinics in Italy and Eastern Europe that will treat women in their 60s.

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