On twitter people keep saying ‘oh your western attitude, of course their family will look after them...’. Because girls are so cherished there. Maybe an aunt or uncle... oh they will be on the 70s and 80s too, or a cousin maybe, well they are probably, what 50, 60 (still old to chase after small children).
I love the way people always evoke ‘gods will’ when it’s something they want (wasn’t gods will when they couldn’t have kids eh?)