So i was married for a very long time and recently single. I have children and the divorce broke me... My ex cheated and was also very physically and mentally abusive.
I met someone at a social event. We went out a couple of times. The date was really nice. I really like him. However he asked to come in for coffee last time. We were kissing but then he started touching me... then he moved elsewhere. I said no and carried on kissing him. He put his hand back i tried to move it but he was too strong. I said no and kept trying to move his hand... He continued doing what he wanted.....
I feel really crap like i led him on by kissing him but i clearly said no and tried to move his hand. I was not wanting that. I like him though so now im confused. Please go gentle with the response. Im pretty broken after my marriage and blame myself for everything. I also was suicidal so gentle please x