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To get my revenge

59 replies

Imfinallyhappy1 · 05/09/2019 17:01

I’ll start by saying I know it’s pathetic and petty. I’ve taken the high road for so long and forgiven my dad time and time again.

I’ve gone LC after another verbal lashing and subsequent family members not allowed to talk to me or just don’t bother with me.

My dad is controlling, I had a very hard childhood and various horrid things happen to me and as a result I’ve always craved my parents love, affection, anything really.

My siblings are treated differently, they had amazing childhoods, loving parents etc. I’ve always been the black sheep and I’ve never known why.

Even though I’m the odd one, they have always relied on me financially, emotionally when they want. It’s been very very hard. I love them but as I’ve gotten older ive realised they don’t love me.

My dad was recently petty to me and quite mean and I decided no more, I went LC and have since had passive aggressive messages from my mum which I know are influenced by my dad, I just want to scream st them but I know it will do nothing. They won’t care and laugh me off as insane or needing help.

So I had an idea! I’d glitter bomb him, a proper spring actioned glitter bomb. It would piss him off and he would never guess it was me.

I have to say I would feel utter satisfaction with knowing he had to clean up glitter and not knowing who it was or why.

I know I’m unreasonable but it would feel so good.

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MrsMoastyToasty · 05/09/2019 19:03

Send a glitter bomb... but forget to put postage on it.

springydaff · 05/09/2019 19:05

Bluntness, if you've not experienced being the family scapegoat then do the research.

bellmadboo · 05/09/2019 19:16

Haha go for it. I'm going to do this to my neighbour. It's just a bit of glitter.

slipperywhensparticus · 05/09/2019 19:21

Slower revenge is the poppy bomb basically seed there garden with poppies they are a devil to get rid of

But cutting yourself off from them would piss them off more

glenthebattleostrich · 05/09/2019 20:23

I once sent some ann summers cock mints to a former boss. If glitter bombs had been a thing then I totally would have sent one.

If it will make you happy do it. I love a good glitter bomb / petty revenge

DampInTheLakes · 06/09/2019 08:56

So you've had a lifetime of emotional abuse and you want to send a glitterbomb?..
If it makes you feel better then do it but honestly I'd be seeking therapy instead. I went NC with a narcissistic sociopathic father three years ago now. It's a difficult road but was essential for my peace of mind and my child's emotional well-being. Sometimes no response is the best response.

StinkyWizleteets · 06/09/2019 09:12

There’s a company that send large boxes with something like giantdildo.com or similar written very prominently on it that has to be signed for. Someone sent one to a boss of mine once. Works well. Think the box is full of glitter .

mumwon · 06/09/2019 09:25

all those adverts you read for dubious things you place his name & address for so he gets lots of strange letters

Wellhelloxx11xx · 08/09/2019 19:13

I wouldn’t they’ll know it’s you. You’ve fallen out and who else would do it?

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