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To tell you why I voted to leave

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readingreadingreading · 04/09/2019 18:20

I'm not brave enough to say this IRL and that is part of the problem.

I refuse to believe that I, or 52% of the British population are either thick or racist. I also think that such a pessimistic view of our population is leading to more divisions.

I have wanted to leave the EU since the Maastricht treaty was signed (I even sent off for a copy of it). I always said I'd campaign to leave as soon as I got the chance. I didn't campaign as it would have meant aligning with groups such as Farage which I do think are racist. But I still chose to vote leave.

I think the EU are getting too big and have always been too bureaucratic. The countries aligned to it are too varied for a common purpose to be right for everyone.

I don't know if we have an immigration problem or not. If we do we need to be able to restrict the number of nationals of other European countries moving here. If we don't we should be a lot more welcoming to people from other parts of the world, people who really need asylum. The current situation has desperate people turned away at borders and highly skilled workers having to jump through hoops for a job where they are wanted and needed.

No of course I didn't believe there would be extra money for the NHS. However I think currently we give money to the EU and we get money back whereas giving the same money directly to British needs would be a better use of it. Not to mention the savings from all the extra MPs.

I'm old enough to remember life before the EU. We managed to travel to Europe, live and work in different countries, eat food and not go to war. I'm reasonably sure we can continue to do so without them.

I don't think the EU can last much longer and I thought (wrongly) that coming out now in an orderly fashion would be better that having it all crash down around us. I'm nervous of new laws being enacted that we have no veto on and drifting into closer integration.

I hate to watch the current mess and no, this isn't what I voted for. But if we can't get out there shouldn't have been a vote and I don't think everything can be blamed on the leavers.

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sunnybeachtime · 04/09/2019 20:34

So if you voted Labour, would you also be mortified to share the same political belief as the extreme left anti-semites?

Also - the extreme left anti-semites are bloody BREXITERS.

Which makes sense, because they are thick racists.

HeadLikeAFkingOrange · 04/09/2019 20:34

Well put OP. I too am too scared to tell anyone in real life how I voted

Bit pathetic, no?

Seriously? Hmm Voting Leave is akin to being thick or racist, to a huge portion of the country. My SIL is a nurse and said she hasn't ever admit to being a Leave voter to colleagues when it's brought up, for fear she be presumed racist or have disparity of care between white British and BAME patients.

Same for my friend who is a cabbie in London. He gets asked frequently & always says he didn't vote (he voted Leave), because he doesn't want to be attacked in his car.

The conviction in one's Remain belief has crossed over into screaming hysteria in certain areas Konnie Huq

fluffedup · 04/09/2019 20:35

There was another good thread about Brexit yesterday …

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/_chat/3682921-which-aspects-of-being-in-the-EU-do-you-object-to?pg=1

Can I repeat my response from that thread? Here it is ...

I’m surprised to read about people still asking about exactly what laws are affected by the EU.

When the referendum was first proposed, I was pro-remain, but I then found out how the EU has got greedy with respect to controlling our laws.

Pre-referendum, Jeremy Corbyn used to talk of re-nationalising the railways. While broadly agreeing with that, I used to wonder why he was looking at the railways in preference to renationalising the water industry, for example. Then I found out that EU laws restrict the use of public funds for state aid. He could probably get away with renationalising the railways because that would mostly involve not renewing contracts rather than buying the assets back.

Although some think he couldn’t even do that …

www.newstatesman.com/politics/2015/08/renationalise-railways-what-no-one-will-tell-you-we-cant-while-were-eu

I was highly pissed off as I’d been voting Labour for years and was hoping they would renationalise water, gas and electricity.

If we remain and a fair-minded government of the future tried to renationalise the water industry, the EU court of justice could scupper this as EU law is against the use of public funds for this purpose. Whether or not you agree with renationalisation, this is a matter for individual countries, not the EU, whose laws currently take precedence when they conflict with British law.

We should have control over our own waters - the British fishing industry has collapsed due to EU rules, to the detriment of coastal communities. This is a huge matter for those living in those areas and I wouldn’t be aware of it if DH hadn’t lived in such areas as a child.

If the British government tries to sneak in a harmful policy, organisations such as 38 degrees will call it out and the government has to consider the loss of support at the election. EU rules are made with no such consideration. Sadly this has achieved the desire of many politicians - to be able to implement a political agenda with no input from the voting population - in short, to ignore democracy.

Do you remember a few years back when the Conservative government tried to gag organisations such as 38 degrees in the run up to an election? Fortunately there was an outcry and the plans were dropped.

When the EU tried to sign the CETA deal, I was concerned as for months I had been hearing how CETA gave private investors too many rights to challenge matters that were in the public interest but would affect their profits. But suddenly the press were not mentioning that, just stressing how the people of Wallonia were spoiling it for everyone else by resisting CETA. Only they challenged the implementation of CETA - they were the only ones that were given a vote - eventually CETA was implemented.

Here’s an article that looks at the problems with CETA.

www.tjm.org.uk/trade-deals/ceta-the-new-eu-canada-trade-deal

The EU has dragged us into CETA. Those concerned about the NHS being privatised should be more concerned about the EU dragging us into trade deals which threaten the NHS. It’s already done it with CETA.

This link explains it better than I can.

www.patients4nhs.org.uk/the-eu-ftas/

The EU can implement laws that make things harder for British industry. It can do this without our consent and often the British public are unaware of it.

Take the recent plans to tax online companies and use the money to prop up the high street. These plans were shelved because they conflicted with eu law. Personally I thought it was a clumsy idea that needed more thought, but surely that decision should be made by our elected government?

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/online-sales-tax-to-help-save-high-street-falls-foul-of-eu-dvjs8v52k

Did you know that’s why those plans were shelved?

And the government could not bail out British Steel because that fell foul of EU laws about state aid. Again, you may or may not agree with the bailout but that should be the UK’s decision.

The eu’s position on state aid explained here.

www.pinsentmasons.com/out-law/guides/-introduction-to-state-aid

A vote to remain is not a vote for things to remain the same but for the continual increase in the gap between rich and poor. Politicians oppose Brexit for the same reason that we haven’t yet had a coherent political strategy to tackle the housing crisis. The political classes are often private landlords and would lose out if large chunks of the population were not trapped into paying extortionate private rents. Similarly, there will be fewer juicy investments if the government is allowed to run the country for the benefit of its people instead of fleecing them with the increasing cost of privately-run utilities.

And we cannot change the EU from within - it took years for David Cameron to tackle the relatively small issue of the tampon tax (actually due to EU sales tax laws - the Government were against it but were required by EU law to collect the tax).

Yet I am told that for holding the above views I am racist and far-right.

Choufleur · 04/09/2019 20:36

I don't know if we have an immigration problem or not. If we do we need to be able to restrict the number of nationals of other European countries moving here

Maybe finding out what the issues about immigration are would have been helpful before you voted. It wouldn’t have been difficult. We cant manage immigration from outside of the Eu well at the moment. Why would we be able to manage Eu immigration any better?

ILoveAllRainbowsx · 04/09/2019 20:36

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Poochandmutt · 04/09/2019 20:36

Can someone answer
Why the eu is making it difficult for us to leave?
Why are they like a spiders web we can’t get out from

Trimummy3 · 04/09/2019 20:36

Oh op you are a legend! I voted leave too for many of the reasons you stated! When I try to talk about this in real life I get shouted down and flustered in my argument!

It’s ridiculous what is going on now. I can’t believe how crap it’s become

TatianaLarina · 04/09/2019 20:37

Who knows and understands every line of every policy before they cast their vote?

I don’t think anyone can on a question of this complexity, which is why it was idiotic to put it to the public vote.

But the problem with the majority of Leave voters I have encountered is that they didn’t even cover the basics. Minimum level homework was not done, hence the shit we are now in.

sunnybeachtime · 04/09/2019 20:38

Same for my friend who is a cabbie in London. He gets asked frequently & always says he didn't vote (he voted Leave), because he doesn't want to be attacked in his car.

Honestly, I would be amazed if a remainer attacked him.

All the thugs and deranged idiots are on the side of Vote Leave.

I remember my dad saying of Trump: shame he won't be assassinated*, but literally all the people who would assassinate a president are Trump supporters.

*not condoning violence

Hopoindown31 · 04/09/2019 20:39

Those who are saying my vote wasn't considered/thought out enough, yep possibly. But who does? Who knows and understands every line of every policy before they cast their vote? Yes I know many here will claim that they do but I would bet there aren't many.

What policy? There was absolutely no agreement or policy from any party or campaign on what leaving the EU would look like at the time of the referendum. There was nothing to know except all of the problems that leaving would cause that were clearly spelled out and roundly ridiculed and ignored by leavers at the time.

Breathlessness · 04/09/2019 20:39

‘I also don’t understand why we have to pay money to eu to leave’

If you rent a home the contract you sign specifies a notice period. Once you’ve signed that contract you can’t just decide to move out and stop paying rent. You agreed to paying the rent for that notice period when you signed the paperwork. Even if you move out you still owe that money.

XingMing · 04/09/2019 20:39

Have not RTFT, but I voted leave because the EU is too big and too diverse to fairly reflect all the national interests of the member nations.

Because the European Council is a self-appointing set of functionaries who appoint each other on the basis of Buggins Turn in the chair.

Because decisions that will affect millions of livelihoods are better made close to the community who elected those representatives, rather than in Strasbourg or Brussels.

Because the EU is a gravy train for bureaucracy and gold plating rules, which are more rigorously enforced in the UK than elsewhere. Our Civil Service is meticulous about applying the regulations, which isn't as true in other countries. You only have to look at the tax evasion statistics for Greece to know the same rules are not applied across the EU, or the brown envelope culture for planning in parts of Spain.

I would be delighted if we remained in Europol, the Erasmus scheme for students, and Euratom, maintained freedom of movement for employees and light touch regulation of pensions and benefits. I will believe in the European concept again when I see numbers of British plumbers heading for Germany, Austria and the Netherlands.

Race... pah... it has nothing to do with my opinion, and I resent any suggestion that it might.

XingMing · 04/09/2019 20:41

@Pooch, the EU is reluctant for us to leave because the UK is, behind Germany, the major funding member of the EU.

jasjas1973 · 04/09/2019 20:41

OP - you may not have supported Farage because he is a racist but 3.8m voted for him in 2015.

Remember approx 600k leavers charging their minds would have meant Remain would have won.

sunnybeachtime · 04/09/2019 20:41

Iloverainbows

People can do what they like. I'm saying I would be mortified to be sharing an important political (not religious) belief with Tommeh and his band of merry skinheads. Completely ashamed. To be honest, the fact that some of my extended family voted leave (and are awful, racist idiots) really really embarrasses me.

If you're happy to be lumped in with them, fine. It's your life

Hopoindown31 · 04/09/2019 20:42

Why the eu is making it difficult for us to leave?

Are they? They negotiated a deal with our government in good faith. The deal was rejected as Tory rebels refused to vote with their government. The same Tory rebels that are now the government. We are making this difficult for ourselves by refusing to be moderate and sensible.

pallisers · 04/09/2019 20:42

I had no thoughts on the Irish backstop, it never occurred to me that it would become the issue it has and I'm sure I'm not alone. I still think, that if we had goodwill on both sides it couldn't be sorted. This country isn't used to having a land border but others are eg EU borders with Switzerland, Canada with USA where free movement for locals is straightforward.

I'm sorry OP but you have no right to be so wilfully ignorant of recent British history. If you are old enough to remember the 30 years between the end of WW2 and the UK joining the EEC as you say, you are old enough to remember the civil war in the United Kingdom in which innocent citizens of YOUR country were killed and which ended with the Good Friday Agreement - your vote to leave has directly threatened that. Saying "with goodwill on both sides" - honestly that is downright insulting to the people who will be affected by this (I"m making a guess here and it won't be you). I suppose it is all a matter of priorities. Clear where yours lie and it isn't with peace in your country.

Span1elsRock · 04/09/2019 20:42

A voice of reason at last OP.

I've yet to meet a single person in RL who is as panicked as MN users and who are hoarding toilet roll, lentils and pasta ready for an apocalypse............... Hmm

colourlessgreenidea · 04/09/2019 20:42

I hate that the those who voted Remain think that their vote is more valid than mine - who do you think you are? You’re not better than me, your vote is not more important than mine. How dare you belittle my choice.

Some Remainers - but not all. I genuinely don’t believe that one person’s vote is less valid than mine just because they didn’t vote the same way as me (in this and in all elections).

I had a lengthy discussion with DH about this last night, as it seems that social media has catalysed an awful dichotomous belief system whereby everyone on your ‘side’ (whether that’s Left/Right, Leave/Remain, etc.) is incontrovertibly correct and everyone on the other ‘side’ is evil and stupid. Sad

Funguy · 04/09/2019 20:43

Unfortunately, nobody ACTUALLY knew WHAT the bejasus they were voting for as no plan had been drawn up, and it sooooo difficult, it still is not drawn up.
As you know:
Being out of Europe is clearly not simple...
What part of the Maastricht Treaty did you object to and why?
You clearly are not anything near Nostradamus- like in your foresight, so we would be interested to know.
A trade deal takes 10 years to set up. Every time one is broken ( and they would ALL be broken) it would have to be renegotiated . Can you not imagine the messiness and the economic ramifications?
UK does not manufacture very much. We are good at finance mainly. We are nowhere near self sufficient for food, medicine, anything much evidently.
So we would be completely disadvantaged for many generations.
I actually don't understand your opinion which is not logically argued. Saying you don't want the EU does not solve the issue of how that action is to be implemented. No one knows how to implement the leaving of the EU. Absolutely, no one.

MerryChristmasHarry · 04/09/2019 20:44

I had no thoughts on the Irish backstop, it never occurred to me that it would become the issue it has and I'm sure I'm not alone. I still think, that if we had goodwill on both sides it couldn't be sorted.

Assuming you mean could be sorted and couldn't was a typo, this is deranged.

Joh66 · 04/09/2019 20:46

The EU has kept peace in Europe for its members. But nobody mentions that. We have had the most peaceful 80 years in Europe for centuries.

MerryChristmasHarry · 04/09/2019 20:46

I've yet to meet a single person in RL who is as panicked as MN users and who are hoarding toilet roll, lentils and pasta ready for an apocalypse............…

Obviously if they haven't told you about it, they couldn't possibly have a stash...

Poochandmutt · 04/09/2019 20:46

I think that our government let us down.
I think they should of worked out a deal with eu first ,and then given us all a choice leave or stay ,when we knew what would happen with either vote
But they didn’t,and I think all of us had no idea what we were voting for either way ,we couldn’t of done ,because no one predicted it would end up like this

TatianaLarina · 04/09/2019 20:46

I would be delighted if we remained in Europol, the Erasmus scheme for students, and Euratom, maintained freedom of movement for employees and light touch regulation of pensions and benefits.

Yet you voted against all of this.

I will believe in the European concept again when I see numbers of British plumbers heading for Germany, Austria and the Netherlands.

You will believe in Europe when the British become less lazy and less shit at learning other languages and less reluctant to embrace other cultures? Ok.