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To think that if a man says he isn’t sure about marriage and kids

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Redandwhitebollard · 03/09/2019 12:02

.....He means that he isn’t sure about marriage and kids WITH YOU ( after 18 months).Living separately .daily text contact. Regular meet ups.

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BossAssBitch · 03/09/2019 14:39

Why must he be lying? Some men and women don’t want either.

I wanted marriage but didn’t want kids. We all have our own needs and wants

And @Tyresal
Are you taking any my OH? He told his ex he didn't want either but actually he meant with her because he wasn't sure about things. We are engaged because it's what we wanted

Could you sound any more smug Grin

Tyersal · 03/09/2019 16:46

@BossAssBitch I know but she was awful to me

EnglishRose13 · 03/09/2019 16:47

My husband didn't want to get married.

Until he met me.

rosiepony · 03/09/2019 21:44

I'm fairly old now and in my experience I completely agree.

If a man says he's not sure....it's you darling so move on.

I'm sure as shit he'd be moving mountains to commit to Uma Thurman or whomever he considers hot, young and adoring.

It's gross and it sucks but better you know. You will be his surrogate mummy until he gets his prize. I know, I've been both.

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