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AIBU to think they want to kick me out of my job?

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SVDW1136 · 03/09/2019 08:35

Hi MN, posting here for traffic and advice.

Been in my job just over a year. Passed 6 months’ probation without any problems. A couple of months after that, I was told I was having issues with:

• not being proactive in getting work;
• being defensive when receiving criticism; and
• my output not being 100%.

My area is law and I am quite junior, with a year of mat leave thrown in post qualification, and coming back to work PT in this new role, 3 days a weeks. So my experience doesn’t match my years of qualification which they recognise.

In the same meeting I am put on an informal performance improvement plan (PIP), I tell my manager I am pregnant. A month later, even though I have been working extremely hard to improve (and been getting positive feedback on some pieces of work, being recognised that I am working hard to build a pipeline of work, not perceived to take feedback badly), I am told they are worried that I don’t have the ability to legally analyse which is obviously the fundamental part of my job. There have been a few instances of where I have looked at something and got the wrong conclusion (nothing sent to clients) and I’ve been told it’s just plain English language and they are frustrated I don’t understand. To a point, I can see that but a lot of it is learning what the words mean is by experience. But I take responsibility for not understanding and perhaps rushing to get work done and not being methodical/thorough enough.

I am worried about being put on a formal PIP (not sure how long it will last, manager is getting advice from HR this week) and how it affects maternity, and also my job prospects. I would leave to avoid being let go but as I am visibly pregnant (3rd baby, due late Jan) I doubt anywhere else would take me on currently.

My priority is to really improve... I am just scared I don’t actually have the legal analysis skills they have talked about. I trained at a top 20 firm and worked for 2 years at another top 30 firm before moving here and never had such an issue.

Do you think they are just managing me out at this point? It’s a large team, quite clique-y, some of the senior people don’t like PT parents and I don’t think I’ve had enough time to bed in. I’m so worried and upset, have barely slept. Any advice, including how to sharpen my legal analysis skills, would be greatly appreciated.

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CloudRusting · 05/09/2019 19:55

Sorry to hear that OP but not surprising. They will need to pay for a lawyer for up but only up to a limit - £500 is often the amount. I agree you should negotiate the amount and make sure you’re being treated appropriately. It won’t be nice but will give you breathing space to work out a plan. Worth spending a bit extra with the lawyer if needs be to ensure you get a good settlement.

I would say though dont assume that going in house is a panacea for your ills. You still need to have excellent technical ability, but need to really be commercial and be able to create legally sound but pragmatic solutions. Yes the pressures are different (billing and recovery rates being the main one you don’t have) but instead you are a hard cost to the business and need to be able to justify yourself. I don’t know what your specialism is but you might want to think a out what areas are adjacent either in legal roles or possibly legal roles. Perhaps think about what your strengths are and what non lawyer roles might suit them. I have some experience around helping people move like this so pm me if you like.

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