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Sales assistant flirting with OH?

61 replies

Mamaty · 26/08/2019 17:20

Ok so I’m pregnant and with my two kids and OH.

See some eye contact going on with OH and sales assistant .

Give her a stare .. yes she is about half our age and pretty ( weren’t we all at that age )

I’m watching his interaction with her and he doesn’t seem to be driving things .

As we leave I’m watching her in a mirror ( with my back to her )

She’s still watching us as we leave ... he has his back to her now ...

So I turn around and look at her full on ... and she flashes a smile and looks away .

WTF was she still looking at ?

AIBU to feel pissed off with this young lady ...

Probably just hormonal right?

OP posts:
Eustasiavye · 26/08/2019 19:13

Also I’m pretty sure I’ve been mistaken as a mystery shopper on many occasions.
The assistants go over and beyond normal customer service. I don’t for one second think they want to shag me.

Alsohuman · 26/08/2019 19:16

Another poster with a sex god husband. I wonder why I never see any of these irresistible men?

MLMhun · 26/08/2019 19:35

Waaaah I’m pregnant be nice 😂

With your THIRD, you obviously just think about yourself and no one else.

Stampy84 · 26/08/2019 19:46

OP
Try not to take too much notice of these comments. True, you asked a question on AIBU and yes people can be brutally honest and at times that’s a good thing. But honestly, sometimes I think posters go too far, and get quite bullyish.
You’re not pathetic, you’re not a loser for feeling a little insecure! Most of us have been there from time to time, and those who haven’t- will some day.
Maybe next time, instead of glaring at someone when you’re feeling that way- give a winner smile instead! Like others have said, there could have been many other reasons she was looking at your husband or you could be absolutely correct! Let’s face it, not all women are descent and there are some who get a kick out of a man giving her the eye when he’s with his wife.. either way, give your best smile!!
Go have a nice bath and relax for the evening, sounds like you have a lovely little family.. best of luck with the new baby x

colourlessgreenidea · 26/08/2019 20:20

See some eye contact going on with OH and sales assistant

Eye contact? In public? What a fucking trollop!!!! ShockShockShock

colourlessgreenidea · 26/08/2019 20:25

You should have given her a smug look as you breezed out of the shop

Or just be a normal person and give her no sorts of looks at all?

KurriKurri · 26/08/2019 20:31

Or just be a normal person and give her no sorts of looks at all?

Be a normal person? On Mumsnet the home of the socially insane ?

OneToughMudderFudder · 26/08/2019 20:32

I get this all the time with DH. He's 50 and extremely fit and muscly and now tanned like an Adonis and even I can't stop looking at him after 26 years together. I've had adult DD's friends call him a DILF and waitresses simpering over him. Even school mums have said they'd 'have a bit of that anyday' in my hearing.

It wears you down.

I just take a spray bottle of cold water out with me and soak em. That soon sorts it out.

colourlessgreenidea · 26/08/2019 20:48

Be a normal person? On Mumsnet the home of the socially insane ?

Grin
Angelf1sh · 26/08/2019 21:01

Not at all hormonal, just wilfully batshit.

Deadsetgo · 26/08/2019 21:07

You’re batshit and paranoid.

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