For context every year we spend Xmas morning/afternoon at my mums. So I know it would feel strange for us not to be there. However I am due my DC four days before Xmas. I know I could go over/be early etc so this may be irrelevant. (I had DS a week before my due date).
Had a conversation with my mum yesterday. Saying you are coming over on Xmas day aren't you? I replied just saying will obviously have to judge the situation when the time comes. As we know all having a baby isn't necessarily straight forward. With my DS I remember not wanting to leave the house and having a horrid bout of mastitis in the first couple of weeks and just generally feeling sore.
Sister then gets involved and they both basically imply they can't understand unless I'm in labour on Xmas day why I wouldn't be coming. Or at the very least if I won't come I should drop DS off.
AIBU? I'm not saying I won't be going and obviously hope to be. Also AIBU in saying unless I was in labour on Xmas day I wouldn't be dropping DS off as I would want to be spending Xmas day with my own DS?
They would obviously be welcome to visit me.