To think she is only with me for one thing?

[PhilCornwall1]

AIBU to think that after 20 years married my wife is only with me for one thing?

Looking back through WhatsApp, every morning it's the same!!

(Lighthearted btw!! )

LTB!
You must make good tea 😂

My in laws have been married for over 30 years and FIL still brings MIL tea every morning. He was a SAHP (but rubbish at housework!) so she jokingly calls him the worlds most expensive tea maker.

I would do this except DH never checks his messages so I just resort to shouting down the stairs 😂😂

You’re a ‘mug’, OP.
I’d make like tea and leave.

DH making me coffee every morning was in our wedding vows!

@TheVanguardSix

My DH and I have been together much longer than 20 years and lead fairly independent lives but the one thing we always stick by is that the first one up always makes the other their preferred beverage. It’s part of our shared language of love.

That being said if DH’s language included the phrase ‘having a slash’ or he felt the need to text me details of his lavatory arrangements I think it would be over for us.

My grandparents married at 16 and had 40 years together before Grandad died.
He took her a cup of tea in bed every morning and left her shoes polished every day before he went to work.
Grandma was an avid crocheter and used to buy huge skiens of wool from the local market, Grandad would sit on the floor in front of her holding the wool for her while she wound it into balls. He always joked he was in his rightful place, knelt at her feet .
Their’s was the happiest marriage I’ve ever known.

Oh you better believe it OP!

I adore my large cup of a double pod with hot milk that DH makes to perfection for me when he is here.

Nothing nicer than someone making something for you that you enjoy.

Love is the little gestures for me, always has been.

I make DH a cup of tea every morning as I'm up first. And he always says thank you.

But he makes the tea on a Sunday.

It's the law

I must admit I'm only with my husband for one attribute. But even he can't open every jar

DH makes me coffee every morning and it's my favourite thing he does for me. I think it's nice knowing someone's thought about me first thing.

DH makes me a cup of tea every morning - I'm not a morning person! On the very rare occasion he's ill or I'm up first, I'll make him one which is generally greeted with a shocked face

Cute

You're doing something wrong if she keeps having to ask. You're supposed to be able to read her mind by now.

I love this, not sure if I love you or her more!

My grandad used the say the reason he and my grandma made it to 70th wedding anniversary was because she made the best cups of tea.

My DH didn't make me a coffee this morning, should I LTB?

@treeplop ogod, you need to log that with 101!!

Oh gosh this is what I do to my partner 😊 bless him, he makes me a coffee almost every morning.... spose I should start returning the favour 😀

Naaawww that’s so lovely

DH sleeps in the spare room because of the snoring but this is a typical morning exchange. I do like my lovely cup of tea.

OH brings me a lovely coffee in bed every morning, although I never have to ask