Am 14w preg and my dad has told me that my mum wants to come to the 21w scan. Dsd came to the last one (she found it difficult to accept the pregnancy and we asked her so she could feel part of it, if she wanted to come).
I just feel that the scan is a private thing for me and dh. We don't have any relatives nearby and so it really is just us and ds (and the new baby when s/he arrives). My parents gave me a great many speeches about how good being a grandparent as they get all the nice/easy bits even when I was in the newborn/car crash phase and being told how ill I looked. I think my mum may have changed one nappy in 3 years.
All of this is fine, but I do feel that given that this baby is very much mine and dh's, I don't want anyone else at the scan this time (dsd is away travelling atm, so not in the frame this time).
I know I sound resentful (!!), but, AIBU? TIA
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To not want my mum to come to the 21 week scan?
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chocchipmuffin · 06/08/2007 09:10
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