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To sit in A&E? How can I make someone take this pain seriously?

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IfItsNotAlrightItsNotTheEnd · 16/08/2019 11:35

At 4am I was woken up with excruciating abdominal cramps. They were like the worst period pain I have ever had in my life, and I had to lie on the floor and breathe through them. I also had a desperate need to pee, without really needing to. I fell asleep on the bathroom floor, eventually, after an hour or so. I had passed some clots. I am not on my period.

This also happened in March. They referred me to the cancer pathway for bladder cancer then, I had a cystoscopy and biopsy which were clear and was discharged. I had an internal examination due to very heavy bleeding, which the doctor recorded as being "a highly abnormal heavy flow", but recorded as a miscarriage.

I'm 30. I've never had period problems before this year, always light and short. I've had no kids. I'm on the pill. I'm not due on for another 2 weeks, and this doesn't feel like my period.

A doctor at my surgery can call me at 3:30pm, but the receptionist seemed baffled I was calling and asked what I wanted them to do. A paramedic friend has told me to go to A&E and push for a scan, but apart from some residual tenderness, I feel okay at the moment and I only bleed at night. Is that unreasonable? How do I get them to take this seriously?

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LittleFairywren · 16/08/2019 13:50

Good luck op you're doing the right thing.

bouncingraindrops · 16/08/2019 13:54

I think you are right to go to A&E

SophiaLarsen · 16/08/2019 13:59

I think the GP receptionist bafflement was because there would be nothing a GP could do other than refer you on which you could do via A&E and faster.

Good luck

Actionhasmagic · 16/08/2019 14:00

Good luck I hope you get better soon

SirVixofVixHall · 16/08/2019 14:05

Hope all ok op . Sensible to get seen, an ovarian cyst can cause terrible pain, a friend’s bouts of pain were dismissed as “stress” until she had an ovarian cyst burst, and lost her ovary.

tomatostottie · 16/08/2019 14:20

Go to A&E and don't down play the extent of the pain in any way at all. Some people (and I am one of them) try to put a brave face on things by not outlining how much something is hurting. You don't get taken seriously enough then.

M3lon · 16/08/2019 14:25

agree will everyone this sounds like ovarian cyst bursting. I have a friend who had exactly your experience.

Sd183 · 16/08/2019 14:36

Good luck and I hope they can help you get to the bottom of it x

CoraPirbright · 16/08/2019 14:37

Good luck OP.

I am baffled byt the receptionist being baffled! Surely excruciating pain and passing blood clots randomly needs looking at Confused

Shplot · 16/08/2019 14:39

Hope it goes well and you get seen relatively quickly.

olympicsrock · 16/08/2019 14:40

Right to go to ED. I’m a doctor

hellsbellsmelons · 16/08/2019 14:40

Blimey OP. Sounds terrifying.
So glad you are going to A&E.
I hope they can help.

JacquettaW · 16/08/2019 14:45

No more advice to add, just what everyone else has said but didn't want to read and run.

Good luck OP Flowers

justasking111 · 16/08/2019 14:50

Good luck, sounds awful you are doing the right thing.

Haggisfish · 16/08/2019 14:51

Hope you’re ok op.

Merrysnow · 16/08/2019 14:53

Hope everything is ok OP and you get a diagnosis soon Flowers

Legomadx2 · 16/08/2019 14:54

Good luck OP. I came on to say go to A&E - good you've gone.

dollydaydream114 · 16/08/2019 14:58

You're doing the right thing - hope you feel better soon Flowers

BrendasUmbrella · 16/08/2019 15:15

the receptionist seemed baffled I was calling and asked what I wanted them to do

How are you supposed to know what to do? I cannot stand receptionists who act this way.

DarlingNikita · 16/08/2019 15:26

the receptionist seemed baffled I was calling and asked what I wanted them to do.

Once this is all sorted, make sure you complain about that. What the fuck is wrong with some people?

Zaphodsotherhead · 16/08/2019 15:26

Did you say to the receptionist that you had had this pain and bleeding but that it had all stopped now and gone away?

Because I can understand her being a bit baffled if you were ringing in to ask for an appointment for something that had happened in the past but was no longer happening - but she should still have given you an appointment to talk to the doctor about it!

(I am not a receptionist, btw, just wondering, as this was the only possibility that sprang to mind, unless the receptionist is a dragon lady who thinks nobody except those close to death should ever see a doctor).

TheGrapefulDread · 16/08/2019 16:20

“the receptionist seemed baffled I was calling and asked what I wanted them to do.”

That’s why I make appointments to see the doctor not the receptionist, she seems to be exceeding her remit with that comment.

LittleAndOften · 16/08/2019 17:10

I went to the surgery this morning and was heartened to hear the receptionist say to the person in front of me "obviously I'm not medically trained". That was a first!
I've learnt that receptionists really just want the briefest of descriptions so they can funnel you to the right place (DH works in a gp surgery). It may be that she was baffled because you gave her too much information? Either way, I think you took the best course of action and hope you're being treated properly now.

YeOldeTrout · 16/08/2019 17:44

I wonder if OP has been seen yet. OP, let us know what happened?

ChrisPrattsFace · 16/08/2019 23:14

How are you OP?

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