Hand hold please?

[Mummyto2munchkins]

Partner of 6 years woke up in a bad mood. Messaging me (whilst at work this morning) moaning about the state of the house.
Got home was tidying he was in bed as he's got "man flu" moaned I turned the light on. DP said I'd done it on purpose to annoy him. One massive argument later he asked me to leave. Apparently I only think about myself. Currently on the bus to DMs with my 2 DC :( I'm devastated

Hugs .
Hoping things work out for both you and the kids . You deserve much better .

So he told you to leave but then moaned because you didn't text to say you were all ok? Yeah right! Tell him to jog on!

If he threw you out he clearly doesn’t deserve to know how you and the DCs are, he certainly does not care (actions speak louder than words remember) You deserve better than this. Well done for leaving. For the sake of the children and yourself don’t go back to him. Let your mum and your aunt look after you all for a bit until you feel stronger. You can do this and it sounds like you have got some good support from people who really do care.

Don't ever ever go back

So sorry to hear this happened:(

Good god. It really is all about his own selfish self isn’t it?

If he cared for his kids so much why throw them out of their home FFS!

Long term OP. You’ll be so glad you saw this selfish manchild for what he is.

I get the feeling you've left before and gone back?

My god, he is an arsehole. The best thing you can do for yourself and your children is not go back to him.

It’s going to be hard and a bit of a mess at first, but it’ll be worth it. Your family will support you until you get sorted by the sounds of it.

Try not to keep texting him. Just leave him to his awful self.

I get the feeling you've left before and gone back?

Same here...and I bet if he starts asking you to come back, you’ll go running like a dog with a wagging tail

Wow sounds like a proper prick and then a message saying you’ve not let him know how you all are. What a wanker. I wouldn’t of even responded.

If he throws you out regularly I’d seriously start looking into getting your own place with the kids. My ex partner was like that, throwing me out every 2 mins because it was his house and he didn’t like how I did/didn’t do xyz. Or had something to say about him doing/not doing xyz. Luckily we had no children together but boy was it a shock when I told Him I was leaving. And for me, mentally i needed it because I couldn’t cope with being kicked out again over a petty argument and having to sit in my car for 6 plus hours until he had calmed down and sent messages similar to what your partner has sent you.

You need a safe sanctuary not only for you but for your kids too and you going back and forth to your mums/sisters isn’t setting a good example of how you should treat other people.

Hope you get it sorted, he will most definatley promise you the world and will change his ways but he won’t. He’s got use to calling the shots and tossing you out at the drop of a pin. Don’t do it. Make the change for your kids

Leave him for good. He’s s nasty piece of turd.

What a self absorbed knob end.