Been with boyfriend a little over a year. Quite casual to begin with if I’m honest . He was wary of my baggage and wasn’t sure if he wanted a relationship . My baggage was emotional .was just out of a shitty long term relationship with a manipulative older man.so here we are a year later and at times I think is he selfish or spoilt or is he determined to do his own thing.
He calls all the shots . He says when we can meet and what we’ll do. He’s not a bully but likes to take charge and can be set in his ways. Everything in his life has a place and there is a place for everything including me. He’s only taken me away once yet has consistently gone away with family and his mates on holidays etc.??he has no intention of us moving in together.he is too hung up on his friends and his family.They treat him
Like a helpless child and he laps
Up the attention .he has too many close female frien imo. Doesn’t see a problem
With constant contact with them.not sure how f he wants marriage or kids. I definitely do and I told Him.He encourages me to spend time with my friend and family but is hesitant in moving from his rigid routine to suit me.he says he’s crazy for me and I’m helpless for him . Help me untangle this please