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Can you please inspire me with your fat to very fit stories?

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OhioOhioOhio · 06/08/2019 18:00

I desperately need to sort out of life. Please.

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FamilyOhNo · 06/08/2019 18:11

Not sure about being too inspiring .... but this summer I decided to get fit ( I am 5 stone over weight and I wasn’t ready to tackle them both together ).

So I bought a bike and started going to gym. After cycling 5 out of 7 days a week and going to gym 3 times a week starting off at 30 minutes maximum, I can now cycle for an hour relatively easily and manage a decent work out at the gym for an hour.

It’s made a massive difference to my confidence and I feel so much fitter and less daunted about pushing myself physically.

I’ve started tackling my weight this week and hope I can make equally good progress over the next few months.

Good luck and pm me if you want any support.

hidinginthenightgarden · 06/08/2019 18:14

I started at the gym last September. Very unfit, terrible diet. By February I had lost a stone and much fitter. When I started the gym I could do 12 maximum on the treadmill. Now I can do 18.

bigshiplittleboat · 06/08/2019 18:16

I struggled with PCOS and infertility for three years, before finally falling pregnant. During the pregnancy I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes, which actually helped me to kick my sugar addiction. I started the pregnancy 2.5 stone overweight, ended it 1 stone overweight and over the next year lost over a stone in addition, through eating healthier and exercising (I trained and completed a 5k and did regular yoga). Fast forward another year and I am pregnant again, with no issues falling pregnant and I feel much better this time than I did the last time. You can do it! And once you get started it gets easier to maintain

LifeofRye · 06/08/2019 18:20

I was overweight as a teenager and obese I'm my 20s, I went up to a size 22/24.

I'm mid 30s and a size 10 now. I'm training for a half marathon.

If you'd have told me that, I'd have laughed it off as completely and utterly impossible.

If I can do it, you can too. Start with small changes, don't buy crap food (if it's not in the cupboard you can't eat it) and find exercise you really enjoy.

I had to learn to not consider food an emotional crutch (no more 'treats' of cake, instead a treat would be a cinema trip) and diets DO NOT work!

Find healthy alternatives to favourite meals, eat wholefoods, cook from scratch and make permenant healthy changes.

Start with breakfast. Swap cornflakes for porridge made with almond milk, swap buttery toast for scrambled egg with onions and peppers, get clued up on nutrition so you know what to eat to feel full (protein works for me) and the small changes all add up to big ones.

It's SO doable.

MountPheasant · 06/08/2019 18:27

I’m just starting out with a goal to get super fit by next May. I’m very determined! Want to be diet buddies?

Zaphodsotherhead · 06/08/2019 18:38

Post menopause and I was getting bigger and bigger. Was three stone overweight and unfit, but consoling myself with the fact that I was getting older, losing weight not so easy, better to be bigger etc etc.

It was all bullshit.

I decided on 01 January this year that it had to stop and that I'd run my first ever 10k this year. Stopped eating crap, started running, am now three and a half stone lighter! I ran my 10k in just over an hour (am nearly 59, so not bad), and have carried on running. Some days it's easy, some days it's hard and I allow myself the odd little binge now and again, but, by god, I like my body this shape!

dollydaydream114 · 06/08/2019 18:42

A few years ago I was also five stone overweight and had literally not exercised for 20 years since I left school. I calorie-counted like mad and started doing HIIT DVDs five times a week. I lost the five stone. Went from an 18-20 to a 10. Kept it off for about 18 months, then got laid up with a health issue that essentially stopped me exercising for about four years and also had to take medication that has a side effect of weight gain. I was depressed and I comfort-ate. Upshot was that I gradually put the weight back on.

Fast-forward to a couple of months ago when I finally decided to bite the bullet and see a personal trainer - I can't do my HIIT DVDs because I've got a frozen shoulder, so I wanted someone to guide me through workouts that don't use my arm. At the same time, I started doing Couch to 5K.

Two months later I've lost nearly a stone, my body fat's down and my lean muscle is up. I've made really good progress with the trainer and he's been amazingly helpful about diet too - he's told me not to cut out any foods and has worked out a suitable calorie limit for me and a carb-protein-fat balance to aim for if I can. He's even told me off a few times for not eating enough. I should also point out that for two weeks of this, I was on holiday - so was eating holiday stuff and not exercising in during that fortnight.

I also cannot believe how effective Couch to 5K has been. Even when I was at my fittest I absolutely NEVER ran - I hated it and couldn't do it. When I did the first three stages in the C25K programme I couldn't even jog for a full minute, I had a full-on anxiety attack about exercising in public, my foot went totally numb and I had really bad knee and shin pain afterwards. My legs were like lead and I was huffing like an angry hippo. I had to repeat weeks 1 - 3 more than once. But on Saturday I ran for 20 minutes without a break for the first time in my entire life and felt absolutely fine and can't wait to do the next stage.

I have still got another four stone to shift but I honestly feel SO much better - I've got more energy, I'm happier, I'm sleeping better and even my skin looks clearer and healthier. I cannot believe the difference it's already made. I'm enjoying my food and haven't really felt like I've missed out on anything. I won't lie - sometimes the workouts are far harder than others and I've had some sessions where I've felt rubbish. I nearly cried after one of my C25K runs and I was pretty useless at a couple of my sessions with the trainer. But I've kept trying and I feel like I've really turned a corner.

I am a short, fat, middle-aged clumsy woman with a frozen shoulder and a wonky ankle and yet I am completely confident that I can lose the other four stone I need to shift over the next year or so, and that I will be running 5K park runs in a couple of months' time. If I can do this, you absolutely can too!

Although I do want to lose weight - primarily through sheer vanity - I have actually enjoyed being fitter so much that it's really taken me surprise. When I lost weight before, the exercise was just a means to an end, which was weight loss. Now I feel like I would want to do the exercise whether I was overweight or not, and losing weight feels like something that will just help me to exercise more, rather than the other way round. It's a great feeling.

Colourfulest · 06/08/2019 18:47

Great thread! I was always a maximum size 10 before I got pregnant and since I had my baby I've gained almost 5 stone and gone upto size 16/18. I don't recognise myself and it happened so fast! Been feeling so rubbish about it. I've stopped gaining weight now but I'm struggling to lose it.

Read some great advice on here so far!

Thecaravan · 06/08/2019 18:47

I was 2 stone overweight and returning to London on the train about 10 years ago, stuffing myself with an entire chocolate orange. Got home feeling disgusted with myself and went for my first run (read very very slow jog/walk) then signed up for a half marathon a couple of days later shitfaced in the pub. Have now done a fair few marathons,many half marathons and actually enjoy gym classes etc which in the previous 30 years I had truly hated.

At the start I stopped weighing myself as the weight wasn't going down quickly enough so just focused on fitness and starting to enjoy running. Took about 6 months to lose the excess 2 stone I reckon.

Currently 6 weeks post partum and just starting out all over again with couch to 5k after doing nothing when pregnant with DD2 due to just being exhausted all the time.

It's awful starting out and being so unfit. It hurts to push yourself. Start small and build slowly even if it's just a few minutes. You'll never regret going to the gym/for a run/walk but you'll regret not doing it. I found developing a routine was key so making 3 evenings a week exercise nights and not making other plans for those evenings.

For me personally the diet changes came after the exercise routine started. The more exercise I did, the less crap food I wanted to eat although I know this is not the same for everyone.

Anyway sorry for the essay! Am also trying to give myself the necessary kick to get myself back in shape.

user1471539385 · 06/08/2019 18:53

I find a fitbit helps as it reminds you to keep moving and sends you little pep talks and congratulations when you do exercise. It’s definitely helped increase how active I am. And parkrun. It’s addictive!

PlinkPlink · 06/08/2019 19:13

You need to find your WHY.

You need a good why too, something that really means something to you.

For me, it's my DS. I want him to grow up seeing exercise as normal and necessary. I want him to learn to eat well and know the reasons why.

I dont want him caring for me. I dont want my health to be a burden on him later in life. I want longevity of life and a good quality of life.

So, find your why.

Then find something you enjoy doing. Don't drag yourself to the gym if you don't like it. Take up power walking if you like the idea of it. Test out new things if you cant think of anything. I tried rugby and loved it. Then I got into Beachbody workout programmes (highly recommend them btw) and I'm still doing them now. Ideal with a 2yo DS.

It won't come instantly. It's a journey. Enjoy it as much as you can.

WhatALump · 06/08/2019 19:18

This will out me to anyone that knows me. 3 years ago I was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes and weighed over 30 stone. Today thanks to weight watchers and exercise I weigh 15 stone. I play netball several times a week, can do whatever I want to.

Can you please inspire me with your fat to very fit stories?
ProfOf · 06/08/2019 19:18

Eight months ago, I was a post menopausal size 18-20 who did no exercise. Now I’m a size 10. Cut out all sugar and and carbs and eat mostly nutrient dense foods. Don’t count calories. Yoga and weights for exercise. Like a PP, I would have laughed if someone had told me I could change so much. It is definitely possible.

Stravapalava · 06/08/2019 19:20

I started couch to 5k at size 16, verging on 18, weighing about 14 stone. I found a love for running, added in some Les Mills classes with a friend and never gave up.

I do a lot of home workouts and get up early to run, as my DC are still young. I've never joined a gym, there's loads of stuff on youtube. My personal favourites are Bodyfit by Amy. HASFit, Popsugar Fitness and Fitness Blender.

3 years later, I've run 5ks in 25 minutes, half marathons in less than 2 hours, I've started weights regularly and my body shape has completely changed. I weigh about 8.5-9st (fluctuate!) and wear a size 8-10.

My mental outlook has completely changed as well. I'm much more positive and smiley in general and my family say I'm more chilled out in general life.

ProfOf · 06/08/2019 19:23

Whatalump - what a transformation! You need to change your user name!

WhatALump · 06/08/2019 19:33

@ProfOf thanks! The name is in reference to my hernia lump though. Still got that 😂
Well done on your transformation too x

riotlady · 06/08/2019 19:33

@bigshiplittleboat do you mind me asking if you have gestational diabetes in this pregnancy too? I had it my last one and I know you’re likely to get it again once you’ve had it once, but I’m hoping losing weight before getting pregnant again might help me avoid it

Didntwanttochangemyname · 06/08/2019 19:39

7 months ago I was over 16 stone, through good old fashioned exercise and diet/will power I am now 11 stone (am 5 ft 8 so very happy to be this weight!)
All my joints have stopped hurting, I have SO much more energy and just feel fucking brilliant now.
Do it, you won't regret it. You will regret not doing it sooner.

42isthemeaning · 06/08/2019 19:42

These stories are so inspiring! Thank you for posting them.
Like the OP I really need to read these and be encouraged!
I'm getting podgier as the days go on. Jeans aren't comfy and tops cling to my big tummy. Tops don't fit across the back either. I am closer to an 18; always been between 12-16. I'd rather be a 12 again and hoping it's possible, even though I'm on the wrong side of 45 and it's so much harder to lose the flab - or so it seems.
I've started just this week by signing up to try different exercise classes. Conditioning with weights seemed do-able, metafit nearly killed me (so unfit!) but I will keep going. I am really trying to stop snacking and consuming so many white bready carbs even though I love them.
Good luck everyone Smile

Oysterbabe · 06/08/2019 19:45

I've recently finally lost the 3st of baby weight and am training for a half. I ran 8 miles on Saturday and felt great during and after. I wore a dress today that I bought pre-kids and was a bit tight so planned to lose a few lbs then wear it. I never did but was able to take the tags off today and wear it and it was positively roomy.
I lost it doing OMAD. I love it so much and plan to continue forever.

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feelingverylazytoday · 06/08/2019 20:00

Hi OP. I am 59, I've lost just under 5 stones over the last few years (been up and down), At my heaviest I was 14 stone 11, I'm just under 10 stone now which gives me a BMI of 23.6. I've been stable for about 8 months nos.
I started off doing wi fit, then I went back to swimming and started doing workouts indoors (dumbells, squats, stuff like that) and lots of walking.
I ended up going swimming 5 times a week (though I'm having to cut that back now) and walking about 10 miles a day. I think I'm pretty fit for my age.
As for diet, just cutting down really. I still eat normal things like beans on toast and pasta and treats like chocolate and crisps, just try not to pig out too much.

Runningonempty84 · 06/08/2019 20:06

I was 11st, a size 12-14 and hideously unfit when I started running. Couldn't even run the 2-min running segments when I started a couch to 10k course.

But I gradually got fitter, started Parkrunning and did my first one in 31 minutes. I'm now a size 8-10, have run several half and full marathons, and Parkrun in 20 mins - a full 11 minutes faster than when I started.

My mental health is also much improved. I run and cycle daily and, as a family, we enjoy lots of outdoorsy stuff I wouldn't have managed when I was fat. I'm healthy, fit, and happy in myself. Can't recommend running enough.

MadamWaffle · 06/08/2019 20:07

I have an Instagram dedicated to my weight loss journey. I'm not particularly active on it but I look now and again to remind myself how far I've come.

I was 13 and a half stone. I've gone down to 10 stone a 0.5 lb (my target is 10!). I'm currently around 11 again, which is upsetting.

I've followed Slimming World and I have a Fitbit which motivates me to get 10k steps a day.

You can do it!

Can you please inspire me with your fat to very fit stories?
Lumene · 06/08/2019 20:09

Wow some amazing inspirational stories here. Thanks for posting, everyone.

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