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DH and I are currently in the middle of a disagreement re: savings for DD who is 8 weeks old.
We have already agreed that any child benefit we may receive (unsure if we qualify at the moment) will go into a savings account for DD. However we are disagreeing over whether to top it up each month or not and if so what amount.
Person A thinks we should add an extra £100 per month we can afford this and it will have no real impact on our current lifestyles. Our child will be living in a different world when they are older and any extra help cannot go a miss, they also think we would be able to control / help what an 18 year old spends the money on.
Person B thinks that with any child benefit plus the amounts we and others will put in at special occasions (we are not assuming this is already my mothers plan) there isn’t a need to top it up. Neither of us had a savings account for when we turned 18 and we’ve done just fine. They are also concerned about handing over a large sum to an 18 year old is a recipe for disaster. Person B also says if we do top up it should be a max of £10 per week.
Who do you agree with?