After an abusive, frankly shocking 15 year relationship, I have been single for two years- happily so, I might add.
However, last year a friend of a friend set me up with a guy. He seemed ok- attractive and independent, we began meeting up as a casual thing.
I woke up one night at his and his fingers were in my “bits” (both holes) . I pretended to be asleep but knew it wasn’t right.
After reading many similar threads on here I now believe it was completely wrong. I haven’t been in touch with him for months now but suddenly got so fucking angry today that I have texted him. All I have said is “Can I ask you something?”
He hasn’t replied yet but when he does I’m going to ask him why he thinks this was ok. Just wanted some support really.