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To buy gin for a teacher?

59 replies

wishywashy6 · 18/07/2019 09:53

Just that really! Got my sons (year 1) teacher a gift set with a selection of little flavoured gins in as a present for end of year, my friend seems to think it's not appropriate. Thoughts?

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roundtable · 18/07/2019 16:52

Although scrap asking the ta - you've already bought it. I'm sure she'll appreciate it.

stoplickingthetelly · 18/07/2019 17:11

I would love this and so would the vast majority of my teacher friends.

CraftyGin · 18/07/2019 17:19

I was given a bottle of gin from a parent when I left my previous school.

SilverySurfer · 18/07/2019 17:27

Not a teacher, hate gin, would prefer a bottle of Blood Orange Cointreau Grin

Nanasueathome · 18/07/2019 17:35

What about blood orange gin?

JennaOfEluria · 18/07/2019 17:36

YABU just because gin is a cliche at best and vile tasting at worst. I don't agree with alcohol gifts unless you know the tastes of the person you're buying for.

gingerbiscuits · 18/07/2019 17:38

OMG I'm a teacher & I'd love a mini gin present!!!!!🤣🤣🤣

SilverySurfer · 18/07/2019 19:49

Nanasueathome
What about blood orange gin?

I didn't know there was such a thing but no thanks - JennaOfEluria has got it right, gin is vile tasting and smelling. Although when I am in Waitrose (buying my Blood Orange Cointreau) I am intrigued by the vast array of different types of gin but not enough to buy it.

Theworldcouldbemymollusc · 18/07/2019 19:52

As a teacher I would love this!!!

Purplejay · 18/07/2019 20:29

I wouldn’t send gin into school with a child to give to a teacher no. Although I am sure the teacher would most likely appreciate it. Somehow sending a child to school with alcohol doesn’t sit right with me.

Malbecfan · 18/07/2019 20:33

As a teacher, wine or gin (or both) are brilliant thoughtful gifts. Sod smelly candles, I hate them. I also hate Ferrero Rocher, but I save the foils to use for Hallowe'en when I give out sprouts in foil.

ImMeantToBeWorking · 19/07/2019 16:09

Any teachers I know would love it.

Frouby · 19/07/2019 16:14

Have just chatted with ds F2 teachers and TAs as we were leaving. All of them were looking forward to a drink tonight, gin, wine and prosecco apparently.

I think any gift is appreciated, even the naff ones.

MissConductUS · 19/07/2019 16:17

I don't drink but when given wine or spirits I just pass them along to family members who do, who are quite pleased about it. It's fine.

clarissa469 · 19/07/2019 16:22

I’m a teacher and believe me I’d even go as far to neck a can of special brew at the end of a school trip if it’s all I had in. I hope it’s me that is your kids teacher, GIMME THE GIN!

Leeds2 · 20/07/2019 00:10

I agree Purplejay - it doesn't feel right to me either for a child to be taking in alcohol. I guess I am in the minority! If I were the teacher, I would love the present.

babybrain86 · 20/07/2019 00:17

I'm a t.a and my partner is a teacher, both of us would be bloody made up with gin 😀 we have a cupboard full of best teacher mugs that don't get used!

Birdie6 · 20/07/2019 00:32

My DD is a teacher and she often gets alcohol as a gift - it's always much appreciated as they do entertain a lot. And it's better than "yet another mug", or perfume that she doesn't like ( though I'm always appreciative of the perfumes since she palms them off to me, lol)

tigerlily111 · 20/07/2019 01:34

I used to be a primary school teacher and although I enjoy a bottle of wine as much as the next person, I would judge a parent who thinks sending a 5 or 6 year old in clutching a bottle of gin, is in any way appropriate.

TwistyTop · 20/07/2019 02:06

This is fine. I'm sure they will simply be pleased that you got them something - It's the thought that counts. I highly doubt your child's teacher has any expectation that will be aware of her personal preferences. If she doesn't drink gin then she can regift it to someone else, like we all do with mismatched Christmas presents. No biggie.

Gatehouse77 · 20/07/2019 02:43

One year we made biscuits or similar and gave a can of gin & tonic or Pimms. Very well received 😊

DeathyMcDeathStarFace · 20/07/2019 04:06

From my experience some alcohol goes down well with most teachers. We moved three years ago so moved schools and the first year at this primary we bought 6 bottles of wine - 2 white, 2 red, 2 rose and a couple of bottles of Shloer - and just went around the boys' teachers and TAs and got them to choose which one they wanted. They all seemed very happy with that option and we were left with the Shloer, happy about that as we don't get through much wine, prefer vodka.

We only have one child left at primary now but weren't sure what to get his teacher this year, she has only been here the one year and didn't know her. Was thinking some pens/pencils/glue sticks/nice notepad etc to help finance next year but didn't know what she liked for something for a little treat for herself. Ds suggested a box of chocs, also thought about wine, flowers etc. Asked another teacher and she confirmed ds's teacher likes chocs, prosecco, sweets in general and has a sweet tooth so cakes as well. (I also said we didn't want to lumber her with a mug saying 'World's best teacher' as it would probably just join with a dozen more at the back of the cupboard, teacher agreed.)

Ended up getting a pack of pencils with rubber, sharpener etc and a mixed pack of biros 'for later' (thinking it would be something she didn't need to buy herself for her new school in September) and a smallish box of chocs and a smallish bottle of prosecco 'for tonight'.

She opened them during the day and started eating the chocs during the day, didn't start the prosecco until lunch time, I guess was saved for after school, but she was rather pleased with the biros! She couldn't find any of her green biros for marking and opened the pack there and then to mark the children's work before they left for the summer! So we think everything was appreciated.

But we are the kind of people who prefer to get two or three little things when it comes to going to class birthday parties, this way there is a chance the child will like at least one thing they get from us. So instead of buying a jigsaw or a nerf gun that is the full price of our budget we might get some play doh, a small jigsaw/board game and some sweets. The last party ds went to was a nerf gun party so couldn't even buy one for the birthday boy then as he already had about a dozen so he got something to do with Spider-Man, sweets and some glow-in-the-dark putty. If we don't know what people like we try to get a selection so they can hopefully keep something and swap the rest with someone who wants them.

DobbyLovesSocks · 20/07/2019 09:11

@Malbecfan - ooh that's ingenious

I asked DS' Yr R teacher outright if she drank and what she'd prefer. She got a nice bottle of white wine at the end of term with our sincerest thanks. This year's teacher is probably getting a gift card for M&S or costa.

Casperroonie · 20/07/2019 09:14

Sounds great!!! 😀😀

wishywashy6 · 20/07/2019 12:57

Thanks all, it was very well received!

To all those who dislike gin because it's a trend or cliché I don't really understand why your own personal hatred of it make it an unreasonable gift for a teacher but thanks for your replies nonetheless.

To those who have issue with a 6 year old handing over a gift bag that contains alcohol, this was my friends concern although she couldn't actually explain why so if anyone could enlighten me I'd be interested to hear your reasoning.

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