Not every weekend and not everything!
Just this weekend and enough to get some rest in. I have tonsilitus. Im sweating with a temp, can hardly eat anything, throst covered in white spots, loosing voice etc. Yesterday i could feel myself falling asleep while driving which never happens (thankfully, came accross a drive thru costa) DS is 9 months and in the stand up sit down cry stage. He is teething and also poorly.
Last night i discovered the spots. DH couldnt give less of a shit. Told me it will pass in a few days and i need to get on with it. He is right, it will pass, but not without at least some rest.
For context, last month he had a cold but happened to be on steroids for a hives type rash that appeared all over his body. This illness took over our lives tor the best part of 2 weeks, despite the steroids taking away every issue with the cold other than the runny nose. I took him to out of hours, spoke to pharmasists for him, made him rest etc while doing everything in sight. He appears to have forgotten all of this.
He is very much of the opinion that we do equal.amounts on the weekends which i agree with to an extent but somehow still end up doing more and he still moans no end about everything he does but thats by the by.
So, wibu to say "please either take ds out (we are national trust members, as is his dad, feel free to do something with him) or have him in the house, dont care what but im off to bed to rest so i can actually go to work on monday"? Wont be there all day, but most times i do this there is a 45 minute limit and then we have to swap so he gets a lie down too... which defeats the point when im ill.
(This is kind of light hearted, but also semiserious!)