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Wearing skimpy clothes at work event

39 replies

workdress · 12/07/2019 21:58

NC for this since it maybe outing.

I'm lucky enough to go on a trip abroad paid by work as a thank you for working hard. Some of the ladies (20s if relevant) are wearing very skimpy clothing. Some of them might as well be naked Blush Is this acceptable? It's a social trip but with colleagues.

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Squeezedout · 12/07/2019 21:59

Are they meeting clients? Representing the company? If not, they can wear whatever they want.

babysharkah · 12/07/2019 22:00

How is it outing?

Who cares let them wear what they want.

Chune · 12/07/2019 22:01

Aye right.

Biancadelrioisback · 12/07/2019 22:01

Why would she be relevant? More acceptable? Less? Either way...why?

Biancadelrioisback · 12/07/2019 22:01

Why would age be relevant sorry

MirrorHope · 12/07/2019 22:01

Ahh leave them to it - if I had the body I would too!

SinglePringle · 12/07/2019 22:02

With you on that @Chune

origamiunicorn · 12/07/2019 22:03

It's not a work event though is it? It's a holiday paid by work?

ScratchyMap · 12/07/2019 22:06

I’m having visions of all these young women wearing bikinis around the pool, and then OP on a sun lounger in full business suit

Sparklesocks · 12/07/2019 22:08

If it’s a relaxed social thing I don’t think it’s that big a deal. Assume you’re abroad somewhere warm too?

LadyTiredWinterBottom2 · 12/07/2019 22:08

Lucky you! Does it really matter?

rosedream · 12/07/2019 22:11

If it's meeting clients - not acceptable.
If it's a jolly - what ever !! At least you've not shown yourself up but make sure you chill and have a nice time. You'll look a boring otherwise.

IHaveBrilloHair · 12/07/2019 22:12

Yep, this happenned.

Kallyderon · 12/07/2019 22:14

I'm so glad you started this thread OP. The world today is sadly lacking in opportunities for women to talk about their experiences of wearing skimpy clothing with people like you who have no ulterior motive.

Bourbonbiccy · 12/07/2019 22:15

It's a social trip, they can wear whatever they like. It no ones business.

Inkstainedmags · 12/07/2019 22:17

Some of them might as well be naked

Are they wearing nipple tassles and a thong?

Pinkyyy · 12/07/2019 22:25

Are they supposed to lay by the pool in a pencil skirt and cardigan?

Teaandcrisps · 12/07/2019 22:27

And suddenly all thier clothes fell off...
Yawn

Treaclesweet · 12/07/2019 22:28
Biscuit
Kallyderon · 12/07/2019 22:29

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Wearing skimpy clothes at work event
workdress · 13/07/2019 15:29

There's a whole spectrum of clothes between business wear and string thong bikini. I guess people are ok with seeing their colleagues nearly naked!

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SolsticeBabyMaybe · 13/07/2019 15:58

Not really the done thing to wear business clothes at the beach/by the swimming pool though, is it?

You are being quite silly. If you don't like it don't look!

Biancadelrioisback · 13/07/2019 15:59

Is seeing a colleague nearly naked any different to seeing anyone else nearly naked? Surely if you're on holiday or by the pool and it's hot, you would expect people not wear less than they would to, say, a board meeting.
Do you now consider them to be less professional?

Spaceprincess · 13/07/2019 16:16

I have to go into a pool as part of my job, so all my colleagues have seen me in swimwear..what else would people wear in the water (assuming you are talking beach/pool).

Teddybear45 · 13/07/2019 16:19

I presume your workplace has provided a freebie beach type holiday to top performing staff, is that right? If so they probably want the young, better looking staff to be wearing skimpy clothes and having fun as it looks better on the photographs they’ll publish in the newsletter afterwards.

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