WWYD about DS14 run away?

[Lissybussy]

My son 14 is a nightmare- moody, cheeky, vile etc. Disruptive in school and very intense and volatile.

We had a big argument a couple of days ago as he’d yet again skipped school. I’ve stopped his pocket money and turned off the WiFi.

He stormed off to his friends house and I haven’t seen him since. I know where he is due to his find friends App but he won’t take my calls or answer my texts.

He’s just texted me to say how much he hates me and called me names and that he wants nothing to do with me!

Not sure whether to just wait until his friends family get fed up of him or drive over there and possibly create a scene at his friends house which of course I don’t want!

Any advice please?

I just wanted to show my support. Can't you ground him, when he come back? I understand my brother was vile, he then started beating my mother I called the police on him and he never done it again. He is a PhD now but has not been nice to his mother throughout his life. Perhaps lack of boundaries and not bonded enough when younger. Who knows?

Glad he's back OP. Hopefully some outside support will help you and him to get to the other side, I know it helped DSD.

Hang tough, it'll get better