to feel resentful towards DH.

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DH does a very stressful job and I am a SAHM of 3 dc aged 7,5 and 2. I have been looking after Dc all week. It has been hard work keeping them all happy, shopping, cooking and cleaning etc.

DH came home early to take them to see Transformers. I was left with dd(2) and the shopping to do and all the clearing up. It seems like he got the easy bit, but if I'd gone to the cinema, nothing would have got done at home.

Sorry for moaning, but already feel better for getting it off my chest.

you will both be fine having a baby can turn the most prepared perfect planned couple around you kind of just have to go with the flow anyway but your situation is not unusual and is good for dads to see what us mums do but if later on its doesnt work he can look for job and you could stay with child it'll be fine as long as you support each other and dont stop talking babies can overtake a bit have some couple time when you can and appreciate each others efforts being a parent is the most amazing thing i ove being with my little one but if circamstances were different it would be the other way round for us too just enjoy the pregnancy and whatever else happens will be right for your family