We met a couple about 4 years ago on holiday who live about a hour away from us.
We have kept in touch, and both attended each other’s weddings (hen dos) gone away for weekends together and stayed at each other’s homes a few times.
They are a bit younger than us. I leant the lady my veil for her wedding (she didn’t wear it in the end) but it was clear it was a loan, and it was expensive.
She has some issues and sometimes drinks too much and he can be a bit of a stick in the mud and doesn’t like going on holiday or deviating from his routines meaning the last few times we have arranged to see them they have cancelled. Her mother expressed to me concerns over his behaviour towards her sometimes and DH and I feel that ultimately the union may not last as they seem to want completely different things from life.
DH has limited time at home and our weekends are quite precious so we have kind of just let it go a bit and the last few times we have texted or contacted them we have had no reply. I am a bit concerned tbh that all is ok. But not sure what to do.
If it is just a case of the friendship kind of ending I will be sad if the friendship is over, but I accept sometimes these things happen, but also I would like my wedding veil back as I want to sell my dress at some point.
So what do I do? They could just be busy 