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To think waxed chests are now the norm for men.?

66 replies

Arnoldthecat · 29/06/2019 12:30

I am just wondering if i am out of step here because everywhere i turn whether its in real life or in the media, all i see is men with totally bald smooth presumable waxed chests. Is this now the norm? It must take a lot of maintenance. How far do you go? Do you also also shave and wax your pubes/balls?

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Titsywoo · 29/06/2019 13:29

Im not keen on hairless chests on men, it looks a bit like a Ken doll or something if they are quite muscular.

QforCucumber · 29/06/2019 13:30

DH is 31, he doesn't wax or shave but he only grows the smallest tuft in the centre of his chest so to see him topless you may think he did.

NeverSayFreelance · 29/06/2019 13:31

I don't think it's true of men in general - but it's certainly true of men in media. It's a shame really because it's just going to cause the same problem women have had for years - people expecting them to be hairless.

Sparklingbrook · 29/06/2019 13:31

Oooh I love a hairy chest. I don't know anyone that shaves theirs.

Laiste · 29/06/2019 13:37

My DH has a hairy chest. Getting hairier as he goes to 40.

I LOVE IT Grin He's all fit and muscly and tanned (outdoor manual job).

A lot of the muscly men i see at the pool/beach ect have jim-bunny muscles (you can tell the difference) and shave all their hair off. Yuk.

coffeeagogo · 29/06/2019 13:37

DH is one of the hairiest people on the planet - he has tried waxing his chest in the past but struggles with the ingrown hair issue, so now he just has a body hair shaver and buzzes his hair off when it gets too unmanageable. The reason he does it, is he said it's too hard to dry himself after a shower. I do his back for him as I'm a lovely wife Grin.

I don't care if he has hair or not it's his body and as long as he's happy and comfortable I'm happy.

Pa1oma · 29/06/2019 13:42

I have noticed a lot of very shiny chested men in the gym and I have to say it’s not for me. It looks really odd when they have a carefully- manicured stubble beard and then are waxed from the neck down. Too much contrast. I love hairier men, specifically darker haired ones - and DH is one of them.

I think it’s to do with shows like Love Island etc where the men wax everything!

RuggerHug · 29/06/2019 13:48

Don't think it's the norm and I hope it doesn't become it😁😁

NinjaInFluffyPJs · 29/06/2019 14:06

Some do it for gym. Some do it when it's hot because if anyone is like my DH it's like wearing a sweater... Or shedding bear fur coat🙄

daisyboocantoo · 29/06/2019 14:06

It's not a good luck and thankfully most of the men I see in RL leave their hair alone

dottycat123 · 29/06/2019 14:12

I have fairly recently got back from a holiday to Fuerterventura. There are plenty of nudist beaches, my dh and I both noted the lack of any body hair on males and females of all ages.

twitterbird · 29/06/2019 14:22

I just don't know what i would do if confronted with a man with a bald public area Confused

Peitho · 29/06/2019 14:23

I think a bald pubic area makes the willy and balls look a bit forlorn.

Picklypickles · 29/06/2019 14:23

I don't think I've ever met a man with a waxed chest, my youngest brother is quite smooth but I think he just doesn't grow a lot of hair, he can't grow facial hair either. I love a nice bit of chest hair on a man, though not as hairy as my dad who I think may be part gorilla!

Teddybear45 · 29/06/2019 14:29

It’s the opposite actually. Beards and hairy chests are in

OldAndWornOut · 29/06/2019 14:38

They've never been out as far as I'm concerned.

RagingWhoreBag · 29/06/2019 15:22

I love a hairy chest, but even those with hair now trim it so it’s all stubbly instead of curly and luxuriant!! I think it’s gross when men epilate, not gonna lie. All the bald armpits and chests on Love Island freak me out a bit.

RagingWhoreBag · 29/06/2019 15:24

I think a bald pubic area makes the willy and balls look a bit forlorn properly snorted at that Grin

Titsywoo · 29/06/2019 18:17

Willy and balls with no pubic hair looks awful. Just creepy and odd.

OralBElectricToothbrush · 29/06/2019 18:22

Love it! DH has naturally very little body hair. It's definitely a look I love.

Sparklingbrook · 29/06/2019 18:24

I thought men shaved their pubic area to give the impression things are bigger than they actually are. Grin

Pinkfinkle · 29/06/2019 18:25

My ex just didn’t grow chest hair. He was dark and quite hairy everywhere else but it didn’t grow there- weird.

DP has chest hair and I like it.

WhoKnewBeefStew · 29/06/2019 18:26

I find hairy chests really sexy.. don't like the waxed look. Think it's probably more for younger men

AguerosAngel · 29/06/2019 18:27

DH has a hairy chest and I love it! I think the hairless look is not so nice, very Ken & Barbieish! Blush

BullBullBull · 29/06/2019 18:29

My DH trims his chest, pubes and sack. He’s 50. I prefer it as well

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