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AIBU?

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To not 'plan' anything for when DD has her friends round.

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BenWillbondsPants · 28/06/2019 19:29

They're all just turned 13. All three are great kids, get on well, no issues.

One of them is quite new to the school and has only been round a couple of times. They're here this evening for tea and will take them home about half 9 ish. I've just had a text from this girl's mum asking me what 'events' I have planned for this evening.

I haven't planned anything! They went to the park, had pizza for tea and are now upstairs messing up the spare room with some crisps and sweets. (No I know this is not healthy food but it's not every day). I can hear a lot of giggling and music and have just left them to it but now I feel a bit shit.

I used to plan stuff when they were tiny but they're 13! I wouldn't have wanted my mum arranging anything for me at that age when my friends were round. AIBU?

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KittyMcKitty · 29/06/2019 17:06

Just one thought, maybe it’s the 9.30 finish time that makes her think you must be going somewhere as that seems quite late...?

Late for year 8’s on a Friday night? Seriously? Guides finishes at 9 mid week- 9.30 is hardly late.

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