Dreading holiday away with 'D'P

[dreadingit4]

Going abroad on Friday with my DP and leaving my 14 month old for 4 days for the first time. Not only am I dreading being away from her but I've just about had enough of his shit.

Needless to say if he had somewhere to live we would be separated but I booked and paid for this back in January for his birthday and as the day have got closer the dread and anxiety gets bigger 😒

AIBU to want to cry at the fact of spending 4 days with him constantly picking at what I do and being an all round C U Next Tuesday??

Help me get excited please 😔

Too late SagAloo. She went yesterday, and the guy's already been nicked for "dropping a drink".

What?! Is there another thread? Is it the one titled DP arrested abroad?

The very one @SagAloojah

OP was right to be wary then, always listen to your instincts.

I can't find the other thread . Has it been deleted?

MN have deleted the other thread. They have concerns about the Op. that usually means troll or previously banned poster.

Why didn't you want to take your very young child abroad with you in the first place? Is she not your boyfriends daughter?

It's perfectly normal/ok for parents to have a break without their children sometimes. Did you really not know that?

I could have thrown my dh out the window and regularly fantasized about divorce to give me a break from him and the kids, but actually, some relaxed time without the kids around was v helpful. actually it was more the situation than him.

How's it going?