Sent him topless pic ...aibu to feel stupid?

[pinkyperkyy]

I've been seeing this guy for 6-7 weeks now.
Anyway I got my nipple pierced today and sent him a pic.
Now I'm thinking that was a bad move and he might think bad of me.
He is on holiday and I think in my head i was thinking the convo was boring and wanted to spice things up a bit.
Have I made a fool of myself by sending this?

Nahhhh - don't worry too much.

Has he been online to read the message?

If it's WhatsApp you can delete it before he sees it by choosing to "delete for all users"

He's already seen it as it has the 2 blue ticks next to it.

did he reply ? respond ?

I don't think you can unfortunately.

Don't worry too much though, there's no shame in getting your nipple pierced or sending a photo.

And if he turns arsey you can always tell him you downloaded the pic from the internet. One boob with a pierced nipple looks very much like another.

It could be worse. I’m sure it will be fine

You've probably not made a fool out if yourself... Assuming that you sent it to the right number. I once sent a rather busty pic to my husband along with a tongue in cheek (scuse the pun) seduction text. Only I accidentally transposed the last two digits. Ten minutes later I receive a call from a very eager and breathy chap offering to come down from Yorkshire to 'give thee a right proppa seein too'.

Don't feel stupid. He may not have had the chance to respond properly as he's on holiday. Most likely he'll respond as soon as he's alone and can really enjoy the picture.

The trick is never put face and anything else in the same picture.

CorBlimeyGovenor 🤣

MrsTerryPratchett exactly. It’s one think to send tits in texts, but another thing to show the the face that owns the tits. That way he only shows your tits to his mates and the rest of the internet when you split up.

Is your face in the photo too?

I wouldn’t worry , if he is genuine he will be pleased as punch.

I’ve sent rude pics to my husband and he has opened them not knowing in a pub etc and quickly shut them down in case anyone would see. He would always respond in s positive way when he is in a private place though

You get approx 1 he after sending the message (if it was on whatsapp) to delete it. Has it been past that?

I don't believe there is any man alive, who would be upset to receive a topless photo of the woman he's been dating for 6 weeks.

I don't think you've got anything to worry about

I wouldn't worry too much about it

I don't believe there is any man alive, who would be upset to receive a topless photo of the woman he's been dating for 6 weeks. This

As long as there's no face in the photo you are fine.

Also he may have opened the message in the company of others, and gone "oh shit, boobies!" And closed it before anyone else could see. My husband does this sometimes with pics I send to him if he's with other people. So I get the two blue ticks but I won't get a reply until much later when he's alone. He still very much appreciates the pics.

Also - nipple piercing? Ouch! You are much braver than me lol

No I didn't include my face.
It was just a close up of the piercing really /you could see a little bit boob and my finger

@pinkyperkyy that's not exactly a topless pic...

I don't believe there is any man alive, who would be upset to receive a topless photo of the woman he's been dating for 6 weeks.

Unless they loathed piercings.

You can delete pics for everyone even after they’ve read it....

Obviously won’t stop him having seen it but you can remove it!

I’m old fashioned and wouldn’t do this in but then I wouldn’t get my nipple pierced. I suspect no harm will come of it.

Yes, you can delete it. Though it may well of saved to his gallery. To be fair OP it's a nipple and a bit of boob so I wouldn't worry about it being identifiable. As far as your relationship goes, who knows what he's thinking?

Yeah I'm gonna stop worrying