Sent him topless pic ...aibu to feel stupid?

[pinkyperkyy]

I've been seeing this guy for 6-7 weeks now.
Anyway I got my nipple pierced today and sent him a pic.
Now I'm thinking that was a bad move and he might think bad of me.
He is on holiday and I think in my head i was thinking the convo was boring and wanted to spice things up a bit.
Have I made a fool of myself by sending this?

My wife sometimes sends me pics like that when we are flirting and feeling a little frisky but are not together, as in on business trips etc.

From a guys perspective he would have to be pretty sensitive if he does anything but smile when he saw the message......I'm sure he appreciated it so definately no need to feel stupid and even if he didnt appreciate it it's still no reason to feel stupid!

Did he ever reply?!

Spicy! Absolutely nothing wrong here, he'll be mad to take it any other way

Perhaps the delay in response is a good thing

Everybody likes a little bit of boobage

I think it depends on whether he’s already seen your nipples in real life. If he has, no problem. If he hasn’t, it might be a bit of a leap. It’s only a nipple though and you can deny all responsibility if you ever need to.

Has he replied yet?

I miss my pierced nipple on my perky youthful boob. Sigh.

The advice not to include face and other bits in the same photo is excellent.

Because in the future, if things turn sour, such photos can be used against you. It's called revenge porn, and it can cause untold misery.

Not that it would occur to me to take intimate photos or allow them to be taken. Too old, too fat, too straightlaced. So I'll never have the OP's current concern.