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Undaunted77 · 20/06/2019 23:12

We are looking for an apprentice.
Candidate A is a second generation immigrant, eldest sibling in a large family living in inner city social housing, attended a notorious local comprehensive and got OK A levels. Is currently 3/4 through a year long paid internship at one of our competitors.

Candidate B comes from a middle class family, for a while was educated at private school, lives in suburbs, has had a lot of support & encouragement from parents. Is forecast to get better A levels than candidate A did. Has only just left school and has no job yet.

Both are good and very motivated candidates - but B’s scores in all the elements of the assessment centre were undeniably better than A’s, and in terms
of personality is probably a better fit. B also has no job at present whereas A is mid-internship.

Would we BU to offer the apprenticeship to A, on the grounds that the opportunity may be more transformative for A, and A has not enjoyed the same advantages as B?

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BonnieBelleStarr · 22/06/2019 17:34

@Undaunted77 it's been in the papers a lot recently so perhaps I have just assumed.

Alwaysonarecce · 23/06/2019 13:37

@iamalwayslikethis

“EVERYONE makes sacrifices for their kids.

You pay your money you take your choices, given the state of the UK, I don't think you have to worry about the proles taking over any time soon.”

True. I’m definitely in the proles’ camp, to rebuke the assumption! Working hard within the state system to eke the rewards of the bourgeoisie blah blah...hopefully my DC will one day be deemed ‘best for the job’. But yeah a lot stacked against us.

21daysofsummer · 23/06/2019 17:48

How do you know candidate B hasn’t succeeded at school despite witnessing domestic violence? His father could be an alcoholic. His aunt might have died of cancer. He might have crippling anxiety. He might have endured horrific bullying.

You have no right to praise A for being so successful despite his terrible upbringing while at the same time presuming everything has been peaches and cream for B.

I truly think your attitude is disgusting. I think your faux naïveté is disingenuous.

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